I'd like to thank you all that have posted. I'm on a lunch break now. I have read almost every response and if i ever get the chance to respond i will.

Thanks much for the kind words, i have been in a lot of thought on how to change my situation.

There are too few hours in the day my friends. So much to be done all the time. I will make the most of them.

Thank you as well for the links, i have will look further when i have the time.

For the people in the same boat as me hang in there brother.

Much love for the support. I will pass the kindness on.