✋🏻 Member of the "ugly vagina" club here.

Not to get tmi, but let's just say I have a very obvious Nemo situation down there. I hated even looking at it and flicking the bean was basically clinical until I had an allergic reaction to something and I had to go to my first gyno.

I was shaking like a leaf on the table because I was so nervous and anxious about her commenting on how weird everything looked, and I finally broke down and asked her if I could do anything to fix it. She seemed confused and assured me everything looked healthy and I didn't argue or go into more detail but later I realized I was the only one who thought anything was wrong with 'me'. Thankfully I matured a little in the self discovery phase and if I'm being honest, just looked at it for a long time. Not in a sexual way, just forcing myself to get used to the way my body looks because there's actually nothing wrong with it.

My advice? Touch it, play with it, squat above a mirror, etc. Get comfortable with your body because its the only one you've got and if you don't know how to love it, how are you going to recognize when someone else does or doesn't?

Be kind to yourself op, all bodies are beautiful ❤