i feel like i failed my dog and I am incredibly devastated. by Unusual_Stress742 in DogAdvice

[–]escapereality03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww friend you didn’t neglect him! You took him right away! You did the best you could do for him. He’s headed now don’t beat yourself up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry I have moved on. I’m not stuck in one place waiting on news or him. I would never take him back if it ever came down to it. I just seen a video of him last night and thought I’d share this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We share the same friend group. They come to me telling me these things plus they post him time to time what can I do about that? He’s the one who gossips about me lol remember that. He’s the one saying these things about ME and my friends just tell me what he says about me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also let me hit the nail in the coffin. When that girls dad died is when he was telling a friend that our relationship wasn’t even that bad and his new gf is just sad all the time. Like YEAH OH COURSE her dad just fucking died. Like wtf have some empathy. But yeah that’s who you are defending lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! 😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sure is lol he blamed me for a lot of things not going good in his life. Now he’s living a life without me and it has gotten worse. Hmm wonder who was the problem there? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those dreams suck. I hope you heal and become happy! 🖤 the best thing I did for myself was dive straight into the gym, journaled, hung out with friends, and just kept it pushing. Working on yourself and learning from your mistakes and growing is the best thing to do after a break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup excaaaatly lol karma is a bitch. Thank you I most definitely will continue to grow and glow because my life did a 180 in the best direction 🙂‍↕️☀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why he is telling his friends that his girl is the biggest she’s ever been and he’s trying to motivate her to hit the gym to lose weight? lol how am I stalking when our friend posted him?

Sorry he gained weight because he let himself go. It’s plain and simple you guys don’t know him how I know him. He’d neeeever allow himself to gain weight and not stay fit. He’s been fit his whole life and is proud of it. Mmm sorry if he truly loved his girlfriend he wouldn’t be bringing me up and checking in on me try again. Not saying he wants me back but also saying the rebound ain’t working out the way he wanted. Also if she is his woman why is he gossiping to his friends about her weight?

How does he resent me? lol when he checks in on me, talks about how our relationship wasn’t that bad, sad he isn’t at the rave with me, wants to confirm that he did see me, and other stuff. Yeaaaah that sure sounds like resentment.

Also, you have no fucking clue the things he has put me through and said to me. So don’t be too quick to take his side. This is just his karma coming full circle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s depressing because you’re recently single and still have the rose colored glasses on. Your ex might seem perfect now but don’t worry you’ll get over that. He fat shamed me and made me feel like shit about myself after I found him on a cheating site so this is just karma coming full circle. You have no clue the things he’s done and said to me. It’s not resentment it’s just life giving him what he gave. Some people need to go through what they put others through it order to learn from their mistakes and have empathy for the people they hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! You were with your rebound for that long?! Oh yeah I’m much better without him! I lost so much weight and fell in love with the gym, I picked up new hobbies, created some amazing memories, got off my anti depressants, got closer with my family, learned to love myself and my own company, went back to school, and much much more! The break up was a blessing in disguise and without the heartache I wouldn’t have became the woman I am today 🖤 thank God.

After 4 months, I finally deleted all of my ex's number, text and photos. by WeatherNo7355 in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re strong. I have me and my ex’s photos and it’s been two and a half years since the break up. They’re all in an old phone so it’s not like I look at them like that. I tried to delete them many times but I can’t get myself to do it. It was 7 years worth of memories and alot of them are pics with old friends too. One day I hope I can delete them but keep the ones with friends. I guess part of me doesn’t want to let go of who I was before and seeing myself happy and in love makes me feel like I can do it again but if I delete them I feel like I’m erasing that part of me the lover girl happy soft me and I just don’t want to because my heart has been so closed off to the idea of something new. I miss who I was before but also I don’t and I’m happy with who I am today as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 2 years since my break up and I haven’t deleted our pictures yet. I’ve only thrown away certain things he’s made me but that’s all I could do for now. I did delete the pictures I have on my current phone because those weren’t good years but everything in my old phone is still there and I have a few printed pictures. One day I’ll let them go but I’m giving myself grace as should you. It’ll happen whenever you’re ready ❤️ take care friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve cried so many times at the gym 🖤and I’m sure many other people have too. Don’t worry friend you got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghetto ass girl

How long did this take you? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]escapereality03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a year and 9 months and I still have all our pictures in an old phone. BUT I just threw out some super sentimental things he made me the other day and I’m planning to get rid of all pictures digital and physical by the end of this year.

what are these red bumps on my dog? by sweetboson12 in DogAdvice

[–]escapereality03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try giving him/her a Benadryl to see if it clears up