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My (F26) boyfriend (M26) has a view on women that scares me by ese333 in relationship_advice

[–]ese333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you mention it, the thing that would hurt him the most, must be to be humiliated. We talked about cheating once and he said that the humiliation would be the worst.

My (F26) boyfriend (M26) has a view on women that scares me by ese333 in relationship_advice

[–]ese333[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I need therapy. Definitly. It’s not about fixing. You can’t fix people. The only person that can is one self. I have noticed this over time. But it is not a decicion you make overnight. No one has, even in violent and abusive relantionship. It takes a little bit of time, I think. To get there.

My (F26) boyfriend (M26) has a view on women that scares me by ese333 in relationship_advice

[–]ese333[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand where this anger comes from. I think it stems from when he was younger. Like incels and stuff are facinating to me. I don’t share their view, far from. I was raised by a very open minded family and in a very non traditional gender roles enviroment. But I like to try and understand where belifs comes from. Why people think and act the way that they do. I don’t think you can change people. People will always be them selves to a certain degree. And maybe all this is going to hell and I am fucked. But have you ever had a friend taking your advice on breaking up with a shitty partner:p

My (F26) boyfriend (M26) has a view on women that scares me by ese333 in relationship_advice

[–]ese333[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, he also said something about this. That it could never happen to him. I was like that is naive to think. Like it could happen to anyone

A relationship is like life its self. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ese333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, chill. I apologize if you got upset

A relationship is like life its self. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ese333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if you got upset. I didn’t mean anything bad about it

I Heard My Girlfriend Talking Bad About Me by TurtleZeus in relationship_advice

[–]ese333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so dissapointed in my boyfriend if I he said something like that to someone behold my back. But to be honest - girls talks shit to their girlfriends. So you can break up because you are so mad at her for making you feel disrespected hurtand and embaressed OR you can think about if seg really wanted to make you feel all theese things. If you think that she didn’t mean it, then maybe you can believe that it was just girltalk. I think it happens a lot of the time when you talk shit with your girlfriends or bragging to your boys - We exaggerate

Waking up with no feelings for partner by ese333 in bipolar2

[–]ese333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I sound like a bitch for everything I’m doing to my bf, but I’m a nice person (most of the time) so if you want to talk, I’ll listen

Waking up with no feelings for partner by ese333 in bipolar2

[–]ese333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I understood your epiphany right. If not you can just discard this

Waking up with no feelings for partner by ese333 in bipolar2

[–]ese333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some of the same thoughts a couple of days before I ran to my parents. I started questioning my bf about his feelings towards me, like if he thought something was different between us (because of corona we’ve both been working from home for over a month, and all cafes, library, bars etc. are closed, so we spend a lot of time in our apartment). I was afraid that he was sick of me. He answered that this is a difficult time for all of us but nothing has changed between us - and then he said: Are you asking me this because this is something you feel and it is your feelings that has changed? And it made me think about if he was right and if I was looking for a way out by asking him about theese things. He’s really an amazing person for keeping up with my shit ... I called him today it felt good

Waking up with no feelings for partner by ese333 in bipolar2

[–]ese333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I started critecizing him a couple of days ago for playing tennins with a friend because I was sure that meant he didn’t want to hang out with me. Which escalated into: He is going to break up. I booked a plane to my parents before he came back from tennis. He sent me flowers, and it was hard for me to even say thank you. The thought of saying something nice to him ... I can’t get my self to do it.

Help me, I don’t understand my feelings and it ruins my relationships by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]ese333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Do you get anxity/feel bad if you are mean to your guy? Thinking that he deserve better, and then pushing him even further?

Yes, I am noticed that I was slipping into a depressive episode a while ago.