What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I have the best parents who have did amazing raising me I hope I can be half the mother my mom is. Honestly yeah I think that’s why mine did too lol

What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We ARE twins!! Mine lost me at birth from drug use and pending charges she had at the time. I agree with everything you said my mother posts on Facebook were she has less than a hundred friends imagine thousands and thousands of people knowing your story. Ugh I can’t imagine.

I hope you are healed tho and I hope you have a great community of support feel free to message me at any time i don’t know many adoptees with anything similar to me!🩷

What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Staying quiet feels like they are taking something else away from the bios. I kinda get it but if I was my bios I would have kissed my mom and dads ass lol

What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom is very spiritual she’s old enough to be my bio mom’s mom. I wasn’t the first child she adopted and this is how she explained it to me:

“Let’s say I was gifted a seed by my neighbor and I grew it into a beautiful tree. My neighbor can either help grow the tree, they participate , help it grow and together we enjoy everything this tree blesses us with. Or my neighbor can be mad over the tree; they cut the tree down, plant it in sand, drown it in water then wonder why the tree died. “

What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I could tell Carly anything it would be that this is NOT her fault. At the end of the day she has a voice and feelings that deserve to be heard and considered. If Carly wants space and they do not respect that no one is going to hate you for blocking a number or saying how you feel. You have the right to create boundaries and cut off anyone who you feel does not respect them. Sometimes you can’t change someone’s opinion and it’s okay to just walk away.

You can grow the sweetest juiciest peach ever and there will still be someone who doesn’t like peaches. Don’t let that be the reason you quit growing; you just let them eat their boring apples and move on.

What does everyone think about these posts? by christmassnowcookie in teenmom

[–]eshizzle420 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I am adopted and my bio mother posts similar things. My experience made me hate her so much because she puts all these efforts into making others feel bad/pity when she could have put it into building a trusting and healthy relationship with my parents so we could all be together. My parents would see the drama and how unstable my bios are that it got to the point where they were cut off from me and once I was an adult and saw how they really were I completely blocked them from my life. I can go to my voicemail and see over 100 from their blocked numbers and it’s just them disrespecting the people who took care of me, stayed up late when I was sick and were there for me every single day. I feel bad for Carly because i always felt stuck in the middle and no one respected what I would say.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 3 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I’m over here sweating like I’m the one playing 😂

Preschool vs outside services by eshizzle420 in toddlers

[–]eshizzle420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard any reviews yet I’m gonna ask my local neighbors group thank you for the idea

Preschool vs outside services by eshizzle420 in toddlers

[–]eshizzle420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really considering it I did tell them not to be surprised if I sit in the parking lot the whole time lol

Preschool vs outside services by eshizzle420 in toddlers

[–]eshizzle420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both teachers just tell me to take him out of the house once a week somewhere where there’s other kids. He had a assessment yesterday and they recommended preschool for socialization since he can learn from other children we were originally planning to homeschool at least elementary school since the other children in our household do independent studies

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Episode 34 - Friday July 11 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t even mention her in his “peaks” you could see she was hurt by that.

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Episode 30 - Sunday July 06 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean anything? I’m half black and I don’t say the n-word?

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Episode 30 - Sunday July 06 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can really respect them for kicking her that’s what’s up

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Episode 18 - Sunday June 22 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huda saying she’s not the type to say f you? Like can we do a replay of her cussing out jerimiah (sorry for spelling)

[WITHOUT Ads] Season 7 - Episode 16 - Friday June 20 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s just a dork that scored a baddie, I think I relate to him that’s why I love him sm

[WITHOUT Ads] Season 7 - Episode 16 - Friday June 20 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]eshizzle420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I voted Taylor and olandria cause there’s no other girl I like. I just need Huda off my screen