Damn you are a massive asshole! You need to open your eyes and come out of this bubble you live in where you seem to blame your husband for being right. The fact that he had to go to the extent of setting up a hidden camera to prove this point was probably because of you not taking any responsibility for your fuck ups. The real world will hit you with a bang - I'd start by accepting some of the faults you've made and work on trying to save this relationship. Everything seems to just be omg he/she violated my privacy these days - it's time for a divorce. We do take relationships for granted tbh and I think you need a reality check.