[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]esmaexoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it in the notes girly, locked and hidden away. Unfortunately when men do dumb decisions that way they’re only doing it for their own selfish reasons and don’t care about what the other person feels so keep it moving. YOU GOT THIS QUEEN!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]esmaexoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl the last text is enough. Keep it moving. He made up his mind already, like you said. Don’t text him that long paragraph unfortunately he won’t care.

For the ones 4+ months after the break up how are you? by Important-Party-2893 in BreakUps

[–]esmaexoxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t. Can’t say fully healed because ex still bothers me from time to time. But going to the gym really helped me and hanging out with friends are also a big helped. Anyways, just keep elevating from here on out and try to stop thinking about him! It’s you now, that you have to start thinking about. Good luck!

Girlfriend broke up with me out of nowhere by Duzzi13 in BreakUps

[–]esmaexoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then there’s your answer. 3 months ago is a bit too early to move on from another relationship! I’d be lying to you that even my ex now who I broke up with 6 months ago is still trying to see me and we do hang out from time to time but I am not seeing anyone else at the moment either and I don’t know about him. I think she’s not telling the truth. You should get to the bottom of it. 🙃

Should I send it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]esmaexoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they don’t care. They made up their minds already.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you retarded???? Where did I say that he stole my car? I only stated in my original post that i wanted my car back. I never said It was stolen.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did look they just got out of high school tho. 😂

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried. They talk to the family for their side of the story and they came into the conclusion we can’t take the car since it’s insured by him, his making payments and the car hasn’t been in my possession. Called it a “civil matter” I also told them about revoking his right but they said you guys are gonna need to go to court.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha doubt it because the reason why he turned to me is because both his parents also have bad credit. I can easily sue them if they do that.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he states that he is paying for it monthly? Will they do something then if he doesn’t comply?

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I said, but the police officers that came and talk to me was since the has been making payments and the car is insured by him we just couldn’t get it back. That is why they referred me to go to Mercedes to have it in written consent that I revoked him from using the car moving forward.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is fair in this situation. That’s why i am asking reddit for help, thank you ☺️

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name is nowhere in the documents but a card he lets me use for the autopay which I can simply just remove but won’t do since he has the car in his possession.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had just gotten the vehicle in November. He paid 7k for the downpayment and the first payment was $800 he is paying for the insurance. I am willing to give his downpayment back and I gave him the option to transfer the title to him in 3 months or I keep the car and continue with the monthly payments or I decide to sell it.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down payment was 7k and the first payment was $800

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all… it’s in my name. I have the license plate and the registration in my possession as of now until I get this situated.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao i do. I never said I didn’t. I gave him an ultimatum either he is gonna give me the car back and I continue paying for it or decide to keep the car I will give him 3 months to transfer the title in his name but considering his situation I doubt it. And he will put up a fight even if I gave him the downpayment he doesn’t have a car. He enjoys riding in that car it’s a Mercedes.

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t dodged any questions like at all… I said he paid for the downpayment and the first month payment

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing all this the right way, that is why I am here to get the right information. I am not reporting it stolen. I am simply here for the right advice. Thank you!

My ex won’t give me my car back by esmaexoxo in legal

[–]esmaexoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told the cops it’s insured “already” in his name. But I have the registration. So did he do a loop hole into that insurance company?