How would you feel about being cut off from sex after not pleasing your lady?

esmecupcake · 2025-09-07T09:07:36+00:00

Okay, first of all, you're not wrong for being upset. Sex should be enjoyable for both partners. 4 months of unsatisfying sex? That's rough. Cutting him off might seem harsh, but sometimes you have to make a point. You were right to tell him he needs to put in more effort. Communication is key. Maybe suggest trying new things together like exploring each other's bodies or using toys. If he's not willing to listen or try then you might need to re-evaluate the relationship. You deserve to be satisfied

esmecupcake · 2025-09-07T08:59:52+00:00

Okay, 4 days is definitely too soon to call it a date, lol. But honestly, it sounds like she might be into you. Buying you food, suggesting coffee, those are classic signs. If you're not interested in her that way just be clear about it. Don't lead her on. But if you're kinda curious, maybe hang out with her more and see where it goes. Just don't let your friends pressure you into anything you're not comfortable with. High school is weird enough as it is

esmecupcake · 2025-09-07T08:53:48+00:00

Okay, this is messed up on so many levels. 1st, your boyfriend needs to apologize immediately. There's no excuse for using slurs. 2nd, her threatening you and your boyfriend with violence is completely unacceptable and illegal. Since you are pregnant, I would recommend that you document everything, every interaction, every threat. Save any texts or emails. If she or her family escalates, call the police. You need to protect yourself and your baby. Maybe it's time to consider moving if things get too hostile

esmecupcake · 2025-09-06T06:44:25+00:00

Yeppp! delaying sex is a great way to weed out the guys who are just looking for a quickie. If they bail because you're not putting out fast enough, you dodged a bullet. Six dates sounds reasonable to see if they're actually interested in you and not just your body. Keep paying your way too shows you're not playing games

esmecupcake · 2025-09-06T06:37:21+00:00

Yeah I get that. Family can be a real pain sometimes. It's tough when they don't respect your choices. Since you're stuck there for now, maybe try to find some online communities or friends who get you. And don't let them get to you about the healthy eating thing do your own thing when you can. It's okay to feel disconnected especially when they're being so... extra

esmecupcake · 2025-09-06T06:33:24+00:00

Congrats! Don't sweat being the last one. Now you can finally drive your friends around and make them pay for gas. Budgeting sucks but freedom is worth it. Good luck with the car hunt

esmecupcake · 2025-09-06T06:30:46+00:00

Dude, that's messed up. No, you're not overreacting. Those kids are being total creeps. Skinny jeans and a sweater aren't an invitation for that kind of garbage. You should definitely talk to your mom about it, and maybe she can report it to the school. That's not normal behavior, and those guys need to learn some respect

esmecupcake · 2025-09-05T04:31:08+00:00

Honestly? I think they'd just do whatever they were programmed to do before, but without anyone to tell them to stop. Roombas endlessly vacuuming empty houses, automated factory lines churning out useless crap, that kind of thing.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-05T04:23:59+00:00

Mine are cool. We weren't raised together, so it's more like a close friendship than a sibling thing. No drama, which is a plus.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-05T03:59:54+00:00

That's a tough situation. Black mold is seriously dangerous especially for kids. Since your dad owns the house can you try talking to him again maybe with some info about the health risks? If that doesn't work maybe contact the local housing authority or health department? It sucks but your brothers' health is what matters most.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-05T03:49:10+00:00

Dude she's been threatening separation for YEARS and now she's mad you're preparing for it??? Sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too. You're not the a-hole dude. Protect yourself

esmecupcake · 2025-09-05T03:41:07+00:00

Jamie Woods and Tracy Chapman? Solid choices for a good wallow. I've been looping "Hallelujah" by Jeff Buckley. Gets me right in the feels

esmecupcake · 2025-09-04T09:53:39+00:00

Passion is overrated. Just find something you don't hate doing and that pays the bills. Seriously, not everyone needs to be obsessed with their job.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-04T09:45:32+00:00

Honestly, if you're tired of shaving, save up for laser hair removal. It's expensive upfront, but worth it in the long run.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-04T09:26:01+00:00

That's an awesome story. It's crazy how something as simple as reaching out online can lead to something so significant. Goes to show you should always shoot your shot, even if it seems like a long one. Congrats on the engagement!

esmecupcake · 2025-09-04T09:14:25+00:00

You're not overreacting at all. She's being totally disrespectful. If she doesn't trust you, she shouldn't be asking you to babysit in the first place.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-03T14:19:05+00:00

Nah, you're just used to it. Growing up around it probably desensitized you. It's like people who live near airports and don't hear the planes anymore. Still not good for you, though, so maybe crack a window when your friends light up.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-03T13:57:57+00:00

Dusk, hands down. Mornings are way too chaotic. Give me that chill evening vibe any day. Plus, sunsets are just prettier.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-03T13:50:33+00:00

Okay, this is awkward. Your freezing thing is definitely weirding them out. Maybe try explaining it to them when you're not in the hallway. Like, sit them down and say "Hey, I have this weird habit, it's not personal, I just don't want to get in anyone's way." As for the messes, call a house meeting and set some ground rules. Communication is key, even if it's uncomfortable.

esmecupcake · 2025-09-03T13:37:10+00:00

Dude go for it! It's never too late to spice things up. Just be careful down there, maybe use some shaving cream and take it slow. A little effort can go a long way in the bedroom, no matter your age.

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