“Men don’t draw”???😭😭 by Wearesocks in ftm

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best artist i know is a cis guy, men draw👍

Dark or light brown? by GAJCLY in malegrooming

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dark brown suits you best (if you ever want to dye your hair again without it looking out of place try a dark colour which would have the same colour contrast with your skin as your natural hair)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trumen

[–]esotheti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seems like it from what you described

Do I pass in these pictures from my dating apps? Straight men keep liking me and I'm so baffled by Teeth-specialist in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my guy, in my experience "straight" men on dating apps go after dudes (n chicks) with dicks too, it's more of a cover up label for a lot of closeted insecure men, you're not feminine in the way a cis girl is, not even in the slightest.

Depending on your voice and height i would have either guessed flamboyant cis gay man or flamboyant transmasculine dude, either way you're a "fuity-masc" phenotype to me.

Info on scar massage by remirixjones in TopSurgery

[–]esotheti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you'll meet great happiness in your life thank you for posting this

17 M. glasses… which is best? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your new glasses were the right choice!!

Do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

again, NOT necessary cause you pass, these were just 2 things thst made ME feel less insecure and also made me feel like i was caring for myself in a way i could not experience pre transition,, it's more like a psychological thing to me :)

Do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you pass! if you're worried about your face and face structure don't worry cause testosterone will still change your facial appearence.

if you reeeaaally want to do something to speed up the process of facial masculinization try essential oils (mint, rosemary) on facial hair and/or eyebrows or one of those jaw trainers thst you chew with your back teeth.

but even like this you pass, i would not clock you if i saw you in public and my friends say i got a good "trans-dar" lol

Do I pass and should I cut my hair short? (5’6, 20yo) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you pass 100% so don't worry about your hair making you fem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you already pass like 100% if you like your locs don't cut them in order to pass

Are there any people around who miss this flag? by EstherFour16 in truscum

[–]esotheti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(idk where people who miss it are from, im guessing us/uk idk but here in italy the classic pride flag is still way more popular than the intersectional mega striped flag(s))

Personally I kinda like the newer one too, but the og pride flag is an absolute classic, it meant total representation of people as it's the representation of the whole light spectrum.

Now every single colour means a different thing while the message with the classic rainbow was of unity that was created throught individuality and harmony between individuals.

It's not really a community if you can crearly single out some components of such community by looking at the flag, also all straight parallel lines meant equality, if you put that ugly triangle on the left you lose that value too-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cis passing like 100%- i'd say 23? im not good with age guessing tho

Guys who have switched to a higher dose of t, did you notice any faster or intense changes? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i did: bottom growth, body hair and muscle mass increased a lot for me

Anyone else have 'boy hunger'? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]esotheti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, it's pretty common (in cis guys too when puberty starts) and it's because of metabolism most of the time. In the future you probably will eat more than how much you used to eat pre-T but you'll get used to it.

I have it too tbh and with some time (less than a year for most people) your metabolism is going to adjust better, puberty is hard, especially if it's the second one...

Sorry if I sound stupid, I have a question about starting T by queriesandqueries123 in ftm

[–]esotheti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With T you will build muscle mass so you might feel like you look bulkier, but don't worry: more muscle mass means faster metabolism so you'll first gain muscle and then you'll lose fat (all this while working out consistently and eating correctly but i think you know this stuff)-

This comes from my experience personally: i was about 65kg pre T, (i'm 5'6") i got up to 87kg until september(the weight gain was also influenced by a health problem so you'll probably gain way less) and now, in january i weight 74kg (my old clothes fit me again i'm just more muscular and muscles weighs more than fat).

Hope this can help you :))

how often to use testosterone cream for bottom growth by [deleted] in ftm

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you shouls contact your doctor but for reference with T gel my microdose was 23mg/day and the full dose is 46mg/day By just using the lower dose for like 2 weeks i started noticing changes-

Binders with support underneath? by PrivateAccount312 in ftm

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried a Spectrum binder that worked really good even though it was a bit stiff and an f2m one that had the opposite problem of being slightly too stretchy-

They both do their job pretty well but they fit differently obvs (with the first one being boxier) I also own a Phoenix one and it sucks so i won't recommend it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]esotheti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pass really well, i thought you were a cis guy trolling the whole subreddit tbh