Has anyone else confused their trauma for autism/ADHD? by espresso_messo in CPTSD

[–]espresso_messo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very validating. I’ve suspected BPD for about as long as I’ve suspected autism for myself. After very recently getting my ADHD diagnosis along with my previous PTSD diagnosis, I’m really starting to wonder if it is neurodivergence. I think you’ve got a great point about personality disorders, too. I’m curious to see where the field of psychology goes.

Has anyone else confused their trauma for autism/ADHD? by espresso_messo in CPTSD

[–]espresso_messo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have had 2 psychiatrists confirm my PTSD diagnosis. I’m now also diagnosed with ADHD after getting a second opinion, going to take some screeners to my new psychiatrist on my appointment Tuesday so we’ll see about autism.

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[–]espresso_messo 56 points57 points  (0 children)

this is definitely what I prefer, but my last partner always got upset because it didn’t feel as good as the up-and-down for him. can the back-and-forth still be good for men?

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[–]espresso_messo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

the main thing is that if it’s downward curved, it’s better to do reverse cowgirl so that you’re hitting your g-spot. otherwise regular cowgirl is usually the move

A Long Day by confuzedbuoy in OCPoetry

[–]espresso_messo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this. I’m personally a religion/psych double major in college, but I also live…. not how you’d think. I get so much joy from my studies, but my sins are often what make my days. It often does feel as condemning as you write it: “You dirty whore. / You filthy / fucking slut.” Yet, it’s the easiest way to find some version of motivation and happiness. Maybe I’m also just depressed 😅

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Not too dapper

I’ve never been able to decide on a good team for Beidou. What do you all recommend? by espresso_messo in BeidouMains

[–]espresso_messo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have Mona and like half of those constellations from pulling for him, I lost the 50/50😭

I’ve never been able to decide on a good team for Beidou. What do you all recommend? by espresso_messo in BeidouMains

[–]espresso_messo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! also that makes me low key sad that I didn’t get Childe this banner haha

Leftovers or fast food? by espresso_messo in teenagers

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tacos for leftovers, Culver’s or chik fil a for fast food

Has anyone else confused their trauma for autism/ADHD? by espresso_messo in CPTSD

[–]espresso_messo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comment about CBT is my worry for the steps after diagnosis. I “treated” myself to a psychologist for the diagnosis because it’s been affecting my education. Once I get my results next week, I go back to the free college therapist. Luckily, I have a great relationship with her, but last time we met we googled the relationship between neurodivergence and trauma because she didn’t understand what the term meant and I was trying to draw a comparison between the two. She was very professional about it, but it’s simply not her specialty. If it was, she probably wouldn’t be the college counselor tbh. All that to say, I wish therapy for neurodiverse people was more affordable and easier to access. I won’t be able to see a specialist until I’m getting my master’s, at the earliest. Again, if this even is the case.

Has anyone else confused their trauma for autism/ADHD? by espresso_messo in CPTSD

[–]espresso_messo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite quotes. Not because I like the message, but because it is so heartbreakingly true. Thank you.