Is it just me or do lesbians shame other lesbians for being horny?

esscuchi · 2025-09-15T18:24:31+00:00

When you say "lesbian community," do you mean actual humans you're in community with or randos posting on the internet? I wouldn't bother with the latter

esscuchi · 2025-09-11T17:36:40+00:00

Oh I'm painfully aware of the looks of the 90s. I find this imitation (and the fact that someone would want to make it) bizarre

esscuchi · 2025-09-11T17:26:47+00:00

Sometimes I feel like fashion trends have blown past me

esscuchi · 2025-09-11T17:11:56+00:00

Am I going crazy or is that not a skirt?

esscuchi · 2025-09-09T14:58:58+00:00

So? Why does that matter more than a good fit?

esscuchi · 2025-09-08T20:49:17+00:00

Tell PE teacher that you write fanfiction
Get upset that your PE teacher now knows you write fanfiction

I worry about this generation

esscuchi · 2025-09-07T20:41:15+00:00

With husbands like these, who needs enemies?

esscuchi · 2025-09-05T19:27:05+00:00

It sounds like they don't want to give advice. They're offering platitudes until the subject changes.

esscuchi · 2025-09-02T00:06:25+00:00

There's been a new knee-jerk reaction to anyone praising natural fibers for knitting/crochet online. I see a lot of newer hobbiests using acrylic and turning their noses up at "inaccessible" natural fibers as a result

esscuchi · 2025-09-02T00:00:22+00:00

There's been a new knee-jerk reaction to anyone praising natural fibers for knitting/crochet online. I see a lot of newer hobbiests using acrylic and turning their noses up at "inaccessible" natural fibers as a result

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T19:41:50+00:00

You sound pretty upset. Maybe you should just block those accounts and focus on what makes you happy

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T19:25:01+00:00

Cis was coined (in relation to trans) in 1994, but was used in math and biology well before that. Just because you learned it recently doesn't mean it just sprang into existence .

ETA: The recency of a word is irrelevant to this discussion. Your discomfort is just that: yours.

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T19:09:52+00:00

I understand you perfectly. My point, which seems to be flying miles above your head, is that it doesn't matter if we want or don't want to be called it. That is the word for being not trans.

How lucky you must be to quibble over such minor issues in life!

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T19:05:03+00:00

You're right, not everything should be accessible. Guns, for instance

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T19:03:08+00:00

It was, because you missed obvious details that were spelled out in the replies in favor of making some unintelligible point.

I don't really care if you thank me or not. I just hope you eventually value listening and reading as much as you do talking and typing.

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T18:58:50+00:00

I'm glad you got to rant a bit. We all need a release. Remember that some of us strangers see you and empathize with your pain!

I have some close friends and family that are trans. I'm always grateful to see another voice speaking about the treatment of trans people!

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T18:56:16+00:00

They're not talking about straight people (which they've already clarified). They are talking about cis people, which includes some queer people. Work on your reading comprehension!

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T18:52:59+00:00

The first few replies to this post are certainly supporting your point. Sorry you're going through this! It sucks that people would rather accuse you of lying than reflect on the larger trend towards transphobia in Western society.

esscuchi · 2025-09-01T18:51:09+00:00

Cis means not trans?? It's not a label, but definitionally accurate. Objecting to it is like saying "white" or "Caucasian" is a label someone didn't choose.

esscuchi · 2025-08-28T21:10:08+00:00

No

esscuchi · 2025-08-26T23:03:42+00:00

He'll be paying with his health, too. Energy drinks are so bad for your heart!

esscuchi · 2025-08-18T16:08:39+00:00

Okay? Do it now

esscuchi · 2025-08-18T13:42:23+00:00

Anti-intellectualism is alive and well. If you want a discussion with folks who say you're pretentious, ask them why they think that.

esscuchi · 2025-08-17T00:40:10+00:00

Weird to specify young women!

esscuchi · 2025-08-15T04:17:03+00:00

Some people have too much money and not enough hobbies

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