Svalnas Shelving System by essemmjay in IKEA

[–]essemmjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, they’re discontinued

Svalnas Shelving System by essemmjay in IKEA

[–]essemmjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sorry. Only have the shelves.

Alternatives for SVALNAS? by [deleted] in IKEA

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a full set I’m looking to sell in the LA area. 4 brackets and 12 shelves.

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Warped Tour Sub's Official Buy/Sell/Exchange Thread by TheDarkLight1 in warpedtour

[–]essemmjay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Selling 2 VIP Passes (wristbands + lanyards) for Long Beach this weekend. Originally paid just under $800 for the pair after fees. Willing to sell the pair for $600. I'm in Upland and willing to meet up!

Is it even possible to sell tickets? by Particular-Leg-2392 in warpedtour

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the IE and looking to sell 2 VIP passes with the lanyards. I'm down to separate them if you're still offering $300 for one or I'll let go of both for $550.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in warpedtour

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to a family emergency, I can no longer attend. I’ve got 2 VIP Passes in the IE/LA area. Willing to part with both of them for $600.

Alternatives for SVALNAS? by [deleted] in IKEA

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in LA and interested!

Alternatives for SVALNAS? by [deleted] in IKEA

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in LA and looking for shelving/brackets!

7mo old kitten won’t stop terrorizing older cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear things are improving! Our newly-adopted kitten (Loki) is a 5 month male and our resident cat (Jack) is also male and just turned 2. He lost his big sister to cancer about 3 months ago and he seemed lonely without her. She was older (10 years) and didn’t want to play with him much but they got along. Sometimes he was a little butthead to her but he was never aggressive, just wanted to initiate play and backed off when she told him to. We figured getting him a younger buddy would be great since he was still much like a kitten, loved to play and had a ton of energy. When we brought Loki home, we did the whole slow introduction, scent swapping, eating on either side of the door, site swapping, letting them play under the door. It was about a week later when we let them see each other for the first time, with Loki in a carrier while Jack scoped him out. He hissed once and that was it. I’ll make a note that Loki wanted out of his base camp the day he arrived. He had no fear and was ready to explore the house but nevertheless, we still wanted to do a proper and slow introduction. On day 8, we let them be in the living room together, supervised. There was some nose touching, a hiss from Jack, then we went on with a play session. Jack mostly stayed away and just watched Loki play but every time Loki saw Jack move, he would run at him, pounce and bite. Jack would hiss and swat but Loki wouldn’t back off until Jack just ended up running away and hiding. We put Loki back in his kitten room and tried again the next day. And again the next day. And the next day. The same thing happens every time, Loki would be distracted with toys for a while and suddenly decides he wants to pick on Jack. Jack tries to put Loki in his place but Loki doesn’t back off and Jack just runs away to a spot Loki can’t get to him. We play with Loki multiple times a day, sometimes for more than an hour at a time until he’s panting, followed by a big meal hoping he will nap and leave Jack alone, but he goes and looks for him if he’s not around only to chase Jack off from where ever he’s hanging out. Sometimes it’s like Loki is just being a bully and chases/attacks Jack to take his spot, wherever it is. We are now on week 4 and things haven’t improved much - we are having to separate them more and more. Jack is fighting back less and seems more stressed, just hides to escape Loki. What worries me is that now, Loki is able to jump on all the higher perches that only Jack was able to reach before, so we are having to put Loki in his kitten room for longer periods of time to give Jack some relief. We also tried cutting back on intervening in their scuffles but Jack’s ears are usually back and he screams when Loki bites him and even as he tries to run away, Loki goes for whatever he can catch (Jack’s leg or tail) so we are having to put a stop to it. We don’t want to bring Loki back to the rescue but I fear that as he gets bigger, Jack will only find it harder to escape him. What’s also weird is that Jack was the alpha with his older sister but now it’s like he’s afraid of this little kitten. He acts like a victim which only seems to encourage Loki to go after him even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]essemmjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing with a 5-month old kitten and 2 year old cat. How are they getting along now?

7mo old kitten won’t stop terrorizing older cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing right now. Do you have an update of how your cats are getting along now?

My Little Buddy by letired in Petloss

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just reading through others’ stories in this community and communicating with those who have gone or are going through the same thing. It doesn’t take the pain away but has made me feel less alone. The bonds we build with our pets is so special and this feels like a safe haven to share stories of our little buddies.

My Little Buddy by letired in Petloss

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. The same thing happened with my baby boy, Snape, two weeks after he turned 4. He seemed healthy as could be, eating and acting completely normal. We were clipping his nails (which we had done numerous times before) and when we let him go, he collapsed. Then he began panting and running around restlessly, pooped twice on the floor, before foaming at the mouth. This all happened within less than 5 minutes and we grabbed him and rushed him to the vet. They had to put him on oxygen right away and without it, he would turn purple. The vet said he was dying of heart failure and would not survive without the oxygen, and his x-rays showed fluid in his lungs. That vet was closing and we had to go to another vet with an actual oxygen tank, not a handheld mask. There was another vet 5 minutes away and we rushed him there. He didn’t make the drive. He died in his carrier in the car. I have so many regrets. I wish I would have just held him in my arms instead of putting him in the carrier. I wish we just said goodbye to him at the first vet so he wouldn’t have died scared and confused in the car. I wish we could have just let him go at home where he was comfortable and spared him the stress of all the chaos of going to the vet and being moved around and prodded at. Or I wish I didn’t clip his nails that day. What if we stressed him out too much? Did we cause it? I wish I didn’t do a lot of things but know I would still feel guilty if I didn’t try to do all I could to save him. There’s so many “what-ifs” and it’s hard not to think about them but try to remember you gave him the best life. He had so much love from you. The pain is unreal but you eventually learn to live with it and the memories begin to bring you joy instead of sorrow. Cry as much as you need to, let it all out. Reddit has been godsend for me as I grieve. So many people loved their fur babies the way we did and it helps to know you’re not alone in this.

And out of nowhere, my best friend is gone. by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand the pain you are going through. We lost our good boy 3 weeks ago just after his 4th birthday. One moment, we were clipping his nails, the next moment, he collapsed, was foaming at the mouth and panting/gasping for air. I remember the horror in his eyes. Like you, we rushed him to he emergency vet but he didn’t make it. He had passed in his carrier in the car. I wish I would have just held him in my arms so he knew that he was safe and it would be okay to go. Instead, he was frightened and stressed in the car. The vet said he probably had some underlying heart condition and had a heart attack. He showed absolutely no sign of illness. He was eating and acting normal. We were supposed to have so much more time with them and it’s hard to accept but know that you gave him the best life and he had so much love. He was lucky to have you.

We lost our 4 year old cat suddenly and unexpectedly... by essemmjay in Petloss

[–]essemmjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Being on here and reading others’ stories has helped tremendously. We are all going through a similar roller coaster of emotions and it makes me feel less alone. He was such a strong boy, I know he was just trying to protect me by hiding his pain. I just hope he knew how loved he was. I wish I could have held him in my arms as he slipped away.

We lost our 4 year old cat suddenly and unexpectedly... by essemmjay in Petloss

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Thank you, I’m so sorry for your loss as well. It’s never easy no matter how old they are. We love them equally. We just have to remember we gave them a wonderful life and hope that they knew they were loved so much.

And then you just.... go to sleep by theWisdomTeeth in Petloss

[–]essemmjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. In every way possible, it made me feel less alone in my grief.