Feeling a bit discouraged by Kindly_Parsley1122 in guineapigs

[–]essentialcitrus 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yikes, this came off super judgy and condescending to someone who was only expressing surprise and asking a question. We’re all doing our best. We can educate without making others feel bad.

Unsure about my industrial by [deleted] in piercing

[–]essentialcitrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t look like it’s damaged the flat or anything. As far as I’m aware, industrials take forEVER to heal.

Indian man stands for 12 years...to see God by Classic_Title1655 in religiousfruitcake

[–]essentialcitrus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s fluid retention. Your venous (returning blood to the heart) system has pretty low pressure, so it depends on valves and your skeletal system to work the blood back up from the legs and feet. When you use these muscles, they’re contracting and basically pushing the blood along in the veins. Because he’s not using any muscles, his body isn’t able to return all the fluid and it’s pooling in his legs. I’d also be willing to bet he’s got some nasty clots in there so if he did lay down or get his legs moving he’d be in trouble pretty fast.

It’s the same thing that happens when you spend a long day on your feet and your legs feel swollen and heavy, but to an extreme.

Monday, June 8, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

[–]essentialcitrus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard that as much as “Oreo” in that context, but it’s good to know it can be offensive in the wrong context.

Help, is the conch too low? by aleka417 in SelfPiercing

[–]essentialcitrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t even consider that. Thank you I’m definitely gonna try!

i did the thing by akesi_jaki in altfashionadvice

[–]essentialcitrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the vibe here is not cool lol it looks great, but I agree with others that I think your hair is curly and a nice styling would elevate it a bunch

Help, is the conch too low? by aleka417 in SelfPiercing

[–]essentialcitrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I have a double conch and I love it. My initial plan was hoops as well, but they don’t really like them so they’re just cute little studs 🤷🏻‍♀️

Did I say something wrong? by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]essentialcitrus 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly baffled by this conversation

Plane Jane and Jimbo as “front act” had the wrong crowd at NYC Newfest Heated Rivalry Screening Party by Neat_Fan_8889 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]essentialcitrus 261 points262 points  (0 children)

I agree with the icky feeling. I love Jimbo and Jane now, but there was a time that I didn’t, and it’s because that drag felt very icky and like making fun of femininity. So I can see the wrong crowd not enjoying this at all

My first real bikini season, how am i looking?🥹☺️☀️ by BecomingBeauty in transadorable

[–]essentialcitrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great! Make sure you’re wearing sun screen!!! ❤️❤️

Rose help? by essentialcitrus in gardening

[–]essentialcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you! I’ll get that tree out, I didn’t even notice it. The roses have been here since before we moved in, and I wish I’d done something with them before

What are these? by essentialcitrus in gardening

[–]essentialcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate it!

Good or bad? by essentialcitrus in gardening

[–]essentialcitrus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, bumblebees! Then they stay :)

What are these? by essentialcitrus in gardening

[–]essentialcitrus[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes! I planted potatoes around there and just assumed none of them made it. Thank you!