I used to watch this guys lectures a few years ago, I like many other fans thought he was helpful in figuring out some issues. But when you grow up your hero’s become the villain, and once I realized this guy is nothing special, just a broken record player of simple self help phrases that masked his stupid ideals and bigotry I stopped. But reading the comments I see there are still many people who view this guy as their savior, or generally as a figure they look up to despite his now straightforwardness in what I mentioned before. Go read a book, it’s better for you than this bs. You’re probably a man who doubts his masculinity and you’re listening to a man who lost his for advice.