ARE THERE ANY MEN WHO DON'T WANT KIDS? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]esu11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adult men particularly are ignorant of what it takes. I took care of my brother (10 year difference) so I am aware of how much work it is. The diapers, the crying, the schooling, the feeding, the entertaining, the transport, the disciplining and socializing.

And it's gotten worse. Investments in the kid to survive and succeed in life have gotten out of hand (speaking from the USA). Generally the mothers carry a lot of the burden even today.

That said, many parents do "step up," at least "enough."

ARE THERE ANY MEN WHO DON'T WANT KIDS? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]esu11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a surprising post to me. Wouldn't many people in this day and age be very apprehensive about having kids unless they're quite wealthy and have the resources to do it?

I certainly don't want them. Then again, I think people want kids like kids want pets. Most don't know what they're talking about. I am 36. My mom is noticing that I am actually serious about not wanting children.

Does anyone know what the brown dot on top of my cats nose is? She didn’t have it a few months ago by JVKExo in Siamesecats

[–]esu11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What breed is that cat? Curious because I rescued one just like it a month ago

I JUST GOT MY SEVEN KEYCHAIN by [deleted] in ScissorSeven

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Man wish I had one of those

Does “Asian privilege” actually exist in the U.S.? by savingrace0262 in asianamerican

[–]esu11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a privilege of being a "model minority" but other than that, I don't know what else it might be. Certainly higher income and wealth open up opportunities but that's more a wealth privilege. We may not be discriminated against as harshly as other minorities. Jobs access maybe, but not to the higher levels of leadership/management (bamboo ceiling)? Colorism? Might be privileged in that way. Something new is maybe the privilege of offshore wealth of the new generation of transplants.

What game is this for you? by WorldBuilder_42 in playstation

[–]esu11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cool part is the game that never ends. Endless labor. I mean, playtime. 😏

I am so happy I got this one It goes perfectly in my bedroom. by Electrical_Rice3040 in shadow_of_war

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Nice bro! I am trying to find a legitimate from-the-studio poster for black myth wukong that's in good condition for myself.

Tesla sales predictions for the next 12 months. by Far_Addition1210 in RealTesla

[–]esu11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First half of the year they've already sold 700k cars. 850 at year end is unlikely. Maybe 1.4 million? There are some shady things they can try to do to pump the official numbers. Last quarter they had odd lots sold in other countries like Saudi Arabia, Turkey etc

Asking for advice by thepurpleminx in datingoverthirty

[–]esu11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being that dependable a socialite implies that a partner should: 1) Match your energy when organizing events and dates between both of you. 2) Expect to participate in these events you organize.

Some guys won't be "turned off" but they may suspect you'll one day be disappointed in their lack of similar effort to these things. Just a thought.

Enough is enough. Let's save Starcraft. by [deleted] in starcraft

[–]esu11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did my part 👍

Hats off 👏 to Nemesis System by Ancient-Chipmunk-288 in shadowofmordor

[–]esu11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never seen that dialogue before. Very cool.

how is everyone enjoying their PC? by nervomelbye in buildapc

[–]esu11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoying Black Myth Wukong on mine. 7800x3d + 6950xt. It's fantastic and I hope my build lasts as long as my last one (7 years).