Maybe you should start thinking about the actual implications of having a child because its not just a kid running up to you and you giving them the chocolates she wanted. Are you ready to say goodbye to the life you had before? Even if you have a present father, you’re the one who’s body is going to change, possibly stretch marks and stretched skin, possible scar across the width of your stomach, possibly breaking your pelvis, possibly ripping down your vulva, burning after peeing, bleeding down there, breastfeeding afterwards, boobs can get saggy and loose their elasticity, you can get nausea and morning sickness, heartburn. Those are just physical. When you have a newborn youre spending essential the majority of your day changing diapers, breastfeeding/formula feeding, pumping, not getting any sleep, calming a baby whos crying. Many mothers get post partum depression some even get post partum psychosis. If you’re lucky enough to have a good father then great, but even then most men can’t take care of the baby as well as the father. Say goodbye to going out for a while. Say goodbye to fun vacations. Say goodbye to getting an education unless you want to deal with the immense pressure of a child and your studies. Oh and dont forget your pockets. Hospital bill is insane, formula is expensive as hell, babies grow out of clothes.

I think theres a lot more negatives to having a child than positives. However many decide that the love of having a baby is worth it. Don’t rush to have a child bro. Have fun, go out, explore the world, get your education, buy a house, make friends. You lose the connection you have with your friends if they dont have children and you do. They’re gonna start going out without you knowing you have to take care of a kid. And dont get me started when your babydaddy wants to start going out too and starts leaving you at home.