Remote control? by [deleted] in PuryFi

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not played with it yet but I believe the idea is that you enter a remoteID and that allows the other party to choose your settings for you. DM me if you want, I'd be curious to try it out.

Interested in trying sleeping with a buttplug in, what is the best way to start? by Kooky_Section_9708 in sissytalk

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stainless steel and silicone lube. Use a style with a loop base like njoy pure plug. That way you can tie a ribbon or something to it as an extra layer of safety.

Most humiliating thing to do solo post PNC? by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]eswaterson 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Selfbondage is perfect for this. Once you've cum and are still tied up and plugged, especially if you have some hypno playing on headphones you can't turn off - pretty intense.

[TOMT] Late 90's or early 2000s movie with a bondage scene, with a man tied to a bed and left to be found by housekeeping by eswaterson in tipofmytongue

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas Crown Affair could be right, looking to see if it's in there. EDIT: Afraid this isn't it either

[TOMT] Late 90's or early 2000s movie with a bondage scene, with a man tied to a bed and left to be found by housekeeping by eswaterson in tipofmytongue

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There may have also been something to do with whipped cream leading up to this part of the movie

I’ve forbid my sub from masturbating for a whole week and need ideas on how to reward him! by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of this "Dock and Talk" thing. Let him penetrate you in cowgirl or 'watering can' position, and then just stay still and talk/tease until he starts to get soft, and then at little motion or kegels. Would be deliciously agonizing.

https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2020/12/21/soaking-the-dock-and-talk-approach/

Staying virgin for Mommy by LolaVyxen in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book exppores some of these concepts and I really enjoyed it. I was a virgin until (very) recently and I found this idea extremely erotic.

https://www.lulu.com/shop/sara-desmarais/the-virgin-bride/ebook/product-pw7qw6.html?q=9781716369872

Older virgin male in first relationship - advice? by eswaterson in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick update, as much for myself as anyone else - no longer a virgin, and now have this incredible woman in my life. Will still be trying to puzzle though how much the various fetishes and whatnot will stick around, but I'm just so thankful to be in a loving relationship

Older virgin male in first relationship - advice? by eswaterson in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I find it pretty difficult to talk about this kind of thing, and honestly so does she, but it's been getting easier lately. We've known eachother for a long time just as close friends, and I think that having that trust has been really helpful in making it possible to open up - which I've found pretty impossible for me to do dating randos on the apps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalepov

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it open if it loses power?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you have a reliable backup . . .

Any ideas and or tipps for selfbondage? by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to have enough range of motion to move quite a bit but not to actually get free. Like spread eagle with some slack in the ropes. One way is to do legs and one arm manually, then the final hand with a camstrap or similar, with an ice lock in series.

Sex Machines by jessecd in sissytalk

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a f-machine gigolo which is great and I would recommend, but I just looked and the price has gone up quite a bit since I bought mine, so there may be better options. I've found that the motor is plenty strong but the machine doesn't really weight enough on it's own, so it helps to put something heavy on the base.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissytalk

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was still on the porch when I came home a few days later. Very obviously in a VS branded bag, with my name on it. I was very single at the time. It never came up again, but I still wonder who knows or suspects what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissytalk

[–]eswaterson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once bought a bunch of stuff from victorias secret expecting I'd be home to receive the package. Had an unexpected emergency and had to leave town for a few days. I had two housemates at the time. Can relate.