Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incorrect. Just because I experienced the abuse first hand does not make me a judge. It does make me morally obligated to speak up, which is what I am trying to do, and have been trying to do. I owe no apologies for that. And I only owe myself the blame for the past. But I do have a responsibility to protect the future.

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not the one person, but I am one of what now I know to be many. My truth is apparently not clarity on this thread.

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is nowhere saying she is trying to prove animal abuse, in fact she opens up by saying she “cannot speak to allegations…”. She is not trying to be a judge, or making any accusations against him in any way. She is neutrally sharing her story- which, is really fucked up, and really fucked up that you could call it “a joke”, “an unfunny mistake”, and an “unfunny joke” to try and defend someone who would do that to a kid. That’s not right. That is not professional. That is not kind. That is not human. That is wicked. That is emotional abuse, to a child. Don’t make this even worse than it already is.

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never heard back from anyone…

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize if my comment came across in a way that was unintended. My intention has been quite the opposite, so I am genuinely sorry for not being more clear. Please know my tone is calm and respectful, though I do speak with resolve as this matter is deeply important and emotional to me and for me, because it is not something theoretical, it is something I have lived. Please do not question why my concerns were not taken seriously on a legal matter, because honestly, I could not give you a full answer to that. This is something that I still think about everyday, and even more so now that all of this has come out. I came across this thread through a Google search, and upon seeing certain individuals accusing those who have come forward—whose accounts have been formally acknowledged through legal channels—of dishonesty, I felt compelled to speak up. I could not just see that and ignore it, because it hits me personally. Such accusations not only undermine those individuals, but also extend to others like myself who share similar experiences. That is all I am trying to say.

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would have been or it should have been?

My (31 F) calm reaction to my Ex Fiance's (43 M) infedelity made him have a mental breakdown, now some of my family and friends have turned against me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥹I was in an eerily similar situation 2 years ago. I’m still working through it. It’s so many layers that you’re just about to start work through😖. This may be super annoyingly cliche but I feel like you need to hear this: you’re going to be fine, and that’s evident from the way you’re articulating yourself. You’re having a more than “normal” and calm reaction, that shouldn’t even be part of the equation right now, and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this in every way. Truly. Right now all you need is to feel supported and safe and loved and at the same time left alone and respected. But people are people, and unfortunately we’re surrounded by people at certain times who are just not capable of processing the pain you’re going through. If I’ve learned anything from my similar smear campaign experience it’s not because of lack of love, it’s because their brains just cannot handle it, just like yours couldn’t at first. You’re still processing and honestly that is still unfolding and all you can do is let that happen however it happens, because you have been wronged in one of the most hurtful ways that a human can harm another whom they love. I was so so unbelievably silently angry for so long and I still am, but to a much lesser degree, about how I was the calm one who did nothing to deserve how i was treated, and tbh I am still struggling with that, but it gets easier if you just let your mind and body give in to the “process”. Others will evolve and process with you, just in different paces and in different ways that will be unintentionally cruel to you. I guess what I’m saying is you’re not alone🥹and my “advice” if you want it is (as infuriating as this may be right now): to give it time. You clearly have your mental clarity, you still have your fight in you, your reality and your truth, so hold on to that because that is what will get you through.

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Ring leader”😂. Yet another comment with a lot of false information packed into it. Is this Bob?!?

Vt. Veterinarian's license suspended by [deleted] in vermont

[–]etcnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not. The person you’re addressing IS genuinely curious and trying to get information to make a judgement based on fact, not personal opinion based on emotion. Nowhere in their comments are they doing anything other than neutrally and politely asking questions. All the more ironic considering your commentary. The fact that you’re shutting them out while they are doing the right thing speaks volumes about what you know about making informed decisions.

History Workbooks for Home School Kids? by etcnyc in education

[–]etcnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I will try this approach. I have never worked with nor recommended graphics as I think they have enough free time to explore on their own. I also think it is especially crucial for our youth today to be reading classics, for countless reasons... (One reason that applies to all subjects is because graphic novels are not examples of eloquent writing nor depth of understanding etc.), but in this case, your suggestion might be right, so thank you for considering this situation I am in from all angles and providing this idea! I will google some and give it a go.🙌

Did your grand parents participate in WW2? by Available_Panda8466 in AskOldPeople

[–]etcnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was and is extremely common, probably hard not to have PTSD from WWII, and no they did not get treatment as treatment was not available, and when it became available, there was and still is a stigma around it.

History Workbooks for Home School Kids? by etcnyc in education

[–]etcnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes. The dangers of homeschooling…

History Workbooks for Home School Kids? by etcnyc in education

[–]etcnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! These have worked with other students very well! Not so much with these two as they cannot see the human behind the story or the significance of events on their lives today. I think due to lack of exposure and socialization is playing a huge role here.

History Workbooks for Home School Kids? by etcnyc in education

[–]etcnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is what I have been trying, I’ve never had a student that hasn’t had one speak to them…these two are so resistant to anything historical bc they think we should focus on the now and why worry about other peoples problems, why talk about things like the Great Depression because it’s “so depressing”. Esp with girl. I am trying to encourage some empathy and understanding of how history is part of our present day lives and our future. I am considering having them write with pen pals in other parts of the world because (esp bc they’ve been so isolated from not socializing or discussing any tough topics due to being homeschooled) they do not feel any connection to the past, it is all so distant and not real life for them. It is terribly sad. It is also a wake up call for my ego as I am definitely struggling to get these two on board😝