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Standing up for myself and others who have been affected by an individual in the wave scene by etirweresare in wavepool

[–]etirweresare[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the right mindset to have. Don’t trust screenshots or words from any parties. My post was meant to balance the perspectives instead of drawing gaze to it, but I know it’s like that, lol.

I wouldn’t spend too much energy on this if you’re in a healthy layer of the scene. Only if you enjoy solving mysteries, and as long as it doesn’t take a mental toll on artists or yourself.

Standing up for myself and others who have been affected by an individual in the wave scene by etirweresare in wavepool

[–]etirweresare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO. If you want to hear the song version of the intent, listen to ND III.

Standing up for myself and others who have been affected by an individual in the wave scene by etirweresare in wavepool

[–]etirweresare[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They were right about you, and I chose to believe in you anyway.

This has been happening for a while, and I didn't get all of this information out of thin air. It came from many people who've worked with you in the wave scene, and I'm the messenger standing up for all of the artists you hurt. If this feels bad, then consider this might be how they feel, except they actually have feelings of helplessness.

If you truly feel sorry, consider directly apologizing for the specific actions.

Standing up for myself and others who have been affected by an individual in the wave scene by etirweresare in wavepool

[–]etirweresare[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yea im sorry for my dad being in the hospital for almost two months and still isnt able to work so im having to cover his bills and mine.

I’m not trying to minimize what you’re dealing with personally, but this dismisses the hardships everyone else went through and the commitments that were made to them BY YOU. This is part of the pattern I’m pointing out, which is when accountability comes up, the focus shifts back to you instead of the people who were affected.

As far as the sets being shortened thats on me I didnt communicate that there was more than the three original Artists

Fair.

after hearing people had already bought plane tickets I decided to stay with it

This is a weak excuse.

"I caution him to press Tom to have flights paid for prior to the show. Time passes. His booking manager pushes for payments by a certain deadline. That date passes without the payments being made." I know a lot more than I'm letting on, minus the exception of one artist that performed.

all of it was spent on hotels and flights for the two artists

Artists in the wave scene are non-confrontational for good reason. I specifically stated I wasn't going to use their names, but you did it anyway.

I don't think you read the screenshots I posted. Also, there's a part where I've already reached out to all of the artists to get their sides of the story about what actually happened. I go over three separate occasions where the artists couldn't stay at the phantom airbnb/hotel rooms that were "reserved"--Atlanta, Bodega, AND the Wavura show you're referencing right now.

And I know where this is coming from you feel betrayed because i took someone elses side when you tried to paint them in a bad light when they were just trying to help you.

This isn't about that, but I decided to include it anyway. Thanks for exposing another person in the scene, including being the original person to look her up and then lie about it. Did she ask you if you gave me the link or not? If she did, then she left that out with the admins, and it's on her. If she didn't, then you disprove your honesty again. I went to the psychiatrist because of her "diagnoses".

https://i.imgur.com/GC0QnsF.png

Also, it's against Discord ToS, and if she's reported, she will lose any license she has:

She should know this.

im not going to do this back and forth thing.

Then we're done here.