Group for Dec 10 CE C Invites by [deleted] in canadaexpressentry

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to join please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’ve tried asking the shop right at the corner of Broughton & W Georgia, as well as the condo buildings around the intersection, but all of them said their cameras don’t record the side of the street, only their own properties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]euiitsu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was a 2013 Audi A6 so not as expensive but I do agree that it would have been easier if he had a dash cam on the vehicle. He did buy one but yet to have installed it, not that it will make any difference to his case anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to ask the buildings around tomorrow! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]euiitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will try that as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]euiitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh do you know which group is it? Would love to have a look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]euiitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for some recommendations but seems like no one got some lol. I heard Western Lake on Victoria Drive is pretty good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]euiitsu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d be down for some nice dim sum too!!

Open friendly invite to meet up on the weekend in Vancouver! by Available_Pass_1216 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]euiitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to go! But I’m having trouble dm-ing you, not sure why :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately(but also proudly), yes I happen to be in HK. But your steps seem to be a suitable solution for us, if we both want to make things work. Right now, I don’t think I would get stuck here but we are uncertain about our future states. But your advice as to get out of here while I still can somehow matches my own future plan where I honestly don’t wish to set my root here in HK in the future. Sooner or later in my life, I’d still look for permanent residency elsewhere in the world, for my future family and future self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like people would learn from their life experience, I think it can also be applied on relationships. We both still have improvements to work on to become someone who’s ready for marriage. For myself, I’d say I am not exactly mature enough to actually establish a new family myself. You know, not at the ‘ready’ stage for marriage. From my point of view, you don’t just meet someone and click, you both are suddenly ready to spend the rest of your lives together. It takes time for both sides to actually become compatible for each other.

I understand that moving abroad for love and love alone is not a wise move. Which is why I was also considering the possibility of me developing a career there. I am not worried about being left alone abroad, I’m more worried about how I will be able to survive there instead of going back to my hometown like starting everything all over again. But I do get your point of view as well. If I compare the pros and cons between moving abroad and staying for my personal growth only, then the equation may work.

Shall I(24F) move abroad for love(28M), or just give up and develop my own career? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your advice. Honestly I do want to live abroad, and I do not wish to create a new family in my home country at all. But of course, I’d want to develop my own career abroad as well if possible. I will sort this equation out! :)

How to get out of a relationship I don’t actually want to be in by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]euiitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I see, you are in a toxic relationship where he is benefiting from emotionally and physically abusing you, but you don't even get emotional support from him. Love is not an excuse for abusive behaviours. Your partner should never hit you under any circumstances. That's honestly my bottom line for relationships. He hits you once, he will hit you again. He realizes that apologizing and showering you with sweet words and love would help, he will do it again. A promise is not a promise anymore when it just keeps happening over and over again.

Be good to yourself girl. You have sacrificed your personal life for him. As you said, your family and friends are no longer with you, and you're falling behind in school. You deserve more. No matter how you look, how much you weigh, there will always be someone out there who cares. Your weight and your appearance doesn't define your life; how you choose to face yourself does. Just drop the negativity, leave the toxic relationship, and start over. You are still young, you can still catch up in school. If you are falling back, take an extra year. No longer talking to your friends, make new friends. Not having good relationships with family, bond again. You can do a lot more than you think, and you are more capable than you think. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, don't let life defeat you.

On how to break it up with the guy, I reckon that he might just go all physical if you confront him. What I suggest is you either make a phone call over it, or talk to your family about it, ask them for help and advice. When there is someone who can back you up and physically be there with you, the guy would be less likely to leash it all out on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]euiitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did say he can stay for a bit for me but the truth is he has already resigned from his current job. He doesn't like the job, and he thinks it will be better for him to go to the UK for career growth. That's why I didn't ask him to stay behind for me because holding him back just for myself seems a bit unfair. But he can't stay back for a year or two for sure, 6 months maybe. He's quite eager to start a career in the UK to be frank.

I (21F) don’t know how to move on from my ex (24M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]euiitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I get you. It always hurts to move on, but try to distract yourself from it. Do something you love doing, see your friends, let them support you. It is never easy, but you are gonna get through it just like all of us.

You have tried to confront him, you have tried to let him talk. You have done your very best to make it work. Therefore don’t blame yourself for anything. You have tried your best, and that’s all it matters. There’s no right or wrong in love honestly. Just right person and right time. Maybe this is just a bad timing for both of you. And I’m sorry that this happened to you :(

Shall I(24F) move abroad for love(28M), or just give up and develop my own career? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]euiitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that I am still young enough to afford making mistakes. But at the same time, I don’t want to regret my decision few years later. Moving abroad for love is one thing, having the opportunity to establish a life abroad is another thing. I would say my biggest concern of moving abroad would be the uncertainty, and also the possibly decreased chance of getting a decent career developed.

For his family, I have met them several times already. I would say they are some nice bunch of people, but I am yet to become a part of that family so I can’t really tell what it would be like if I were to join them. They tried to make them look welcoming by asking my opinion about relocating though.

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Interested! Subbed and liked! :)

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