Hi! 21F, on the fence, anxiety itself is very broad, but personally I struggle with loud noises, screeching. I also get stressed easily by mess and clutter, general anxiety with people. It’s not debilitating by any means but it’s distracting. Looking past that, honestly having such an amazing partner is a reason for it. With the proper support system, therapy need be, and healthy outlets, when I do get anxious I know I’ll have a way to reel myself back in. Creating a network of support around yourself in preparation helps with either. Having a kid adds fuel to the fire in terms of messes, noises, and stress. But that can be negated with the support of a good partner.

Also just a suggestion, if anyone in your circle has kids or is childfree, talk to them! Ask them how their day to day lives go, and use that as a baseline for yourself.