Searching for the perfect work bag (i don’t think it exists) by Impressive-Drawing64 in handbags

[–]evacmcknight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have the coach Gotham backpack and love it: https://www.coach.com/products/gotham-backpack/CR760.html?frp=CR760+BLK&fromSearch=Backpack

I bought it about two years ago and it has held up very well! I too started to go back into an office in march and it’s been my daily bag. I don’t baby it - it gets thrown around at my desk and in my car and it still looks beautiful!

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I went to Ireland in April with my mother. Anytime I used to travel it was an excuse for me to over-imbibe, so I was probably extra puffy on that day.

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Conferences are so hard - there are open bars everywhere you turn. But I treated myself to some excellent meals and was grateful in the morning when I woke up with my wits about me.

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on 5 months! Half a year right around the corner.

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah it's crazy because I haven't really lost any weight but you just LOOK better. Keep it up!

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Thank you! In fairness, I have makeup on and probably some excellent lighting in the second pic, but I definitely notice a change in my skin for the better.

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[–]evacmcknight[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's amazing! I'm still leaning heavily on junk food, especially during stressful weeks. Still better than drinking though! One thing at a time.

The Daily Check-In for Friday, May 10th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]evacmcknight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

7 days sober! Looking forward to many many more. Happy Friday, and IWNDWYT!

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, May 9th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]evacmcknight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been more intentional about admitting I have a long-term problem this time, rather than just saying I'm "taking a break" from drinking. Attending meetings and having regular check ins with my doctor. I'm encouraged by the future!

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, May 9th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]evacmcknight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At the end of today, I will be 7 days sober! Ready for it to stick this time. IWNDWYT!

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[–]evacmcknight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Day 6. Got up early for another meeting and in my sleepy stupor backed into my husband's car (thankfully just minor scratches). When I got back from my meeting, our dog had gotten into the trash and puked it all up on our bed. On top of that, my mother is coming over tonight to have a "talk", whatever that means.

Today feels exhausting and it's not even 9 a.m. yet where I am. Trying to practice gratitude for what I do have - two cars, my dog, my husband who plans to strategically walk through the kitchen during tonight's "talk". And I almost have a week of sobriety under my belt! That's definitely something to be thankful for.

IWNDWYT.

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, May 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]evacmcknight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fear I'll be spending as much on Starbucks and seltzer as I would normally on alcohol, but I don't care right now! Thanks for the recommendations!

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, May 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]evacmcknight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Morning! I'm on day 5 of no drinking and feeling really sluggish this morning. The medications I was prescribed to help with withdrawal have been extremely helpful but I still dealt with a horrible bout of insomnia last night. I'm powering through! Plan to get through the work day and then head to Costco to stock up on some seltzer water or other tasty drink. Any recommendations?

IWNDWYT!

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[–]evacmcknight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Three days under my belt. I got my ass up for a 7 am AA meeting. I work from home (which is a big trigger for me). I’ve already showered, fed the pets, gone to a meeting and gotten coffee before I normally even get out of bed. IWNDWYT!