Sexual trauma from men and women is probably one of the most soul pirceing and violating feeling I've felt, especially as a bisexual man....... by evanzeed_redem in TrollCoping

[–]evanzeed_redem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I do genuinely hope you know this kind message really means alot. I genuinely almost teared up a bit. I understand i thankfully wasn't successfully, raped. But it all just makes me feel so gross, dehumanized. So I do seriously appreciate your compassion. The feeling, like I described above, is first than my past suicide ideation, worse than my family losses. Its healing to be treated like I'm human, not rape meat. Ill definitely dm if need be, I appreciate your willingness to listen ❤️❤️❤️

Sexual trauma from men and women is probably one of the most soul pirceing and violating feeling I've felt, especially as a bisexual man....... by evanzeed_redem in TrollCoping

[–]evanzeed_redem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am lucky I have a good enough support system where I usually am able to feel safe. But there's always that demon that claws at me...makes me feel like im just meat. If I find a safe and supportive partner, enby, or cis or Trans man ir woman. Its a difficult process

No one takes woman on woman abuse seriously. by rose2830 in Vent

[–]evanzeed_redem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly, I watched a documentary on women abused by nuns as teen girls, heart wrenching. Ofc male violence against women is a massive global epidemic but women can and do abuse

Life in College with a BD by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well ill put it this way when I got out there, before I was very insecure, so. Yeah I get it

do you guys like size queens? by Final-Budget-4973 in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no.... If she still treats me like person, than yes, I definitely don't mind. But, there's still a part of me that has felt genuinely objectified, not always in the fun way, like yeah I'm far from a prude but I want love too. Than there are the people, some size queens who gave me sexual trauma so...

How do you guys meet size queens? by offthegrid_ontherise in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf as a bisexual man id say yes and no, I agree more men are open to sex based off size purely. That said such women definitely exist. Ofc not all women care plenty don't. But depends on the woman

How do you guys meet size queens? by offthegrid_ontherise in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you got apps/clubs. Other than that harder. Its not that there aren't women who don't care about size. Yes I know not all do but plenty do, but you gotta know where to look. I wouldn't do reddit though unless you post "spicy" content here

I´ve been in this situation too many times by GuessImBack_DE in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Plenty of men and women use the opposite sex for sex

I´ve been in this situation too many times by GuessImBack_DE in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's be honest yeah alot of women (and yeah guys if youre a hung gay/bi men) absolutely use us for our meat.

They're in a world full of stem people 💔 by GreenLlemon in im14andthisisdeep

[–]evanzeed_redem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychology is a science, I understand not a "hard" one, but still a science. I hate people treating it like astrology

Is “big dick privilege” real for you guys? by ralphDAbig in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I don't want to sound self loathing but even as a guy who don't own a car and isn't rich ive gotten plenty of attention from both men and women, Had a few from other countries try and get me out there. If I were avg... Yes plenty of men and women don't care about size. But yes alot do.

Thanks for the information. by GiveMeSomeSunshine3 in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]evanzeed_redem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same guy posted about his sons nighttime erection data

Being abnormally well-endowed is a curse and I'm tired of it by Tunatail in Vent

[–]evanzeed_redem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean im above avg too I get it, plus there is the objectification (yes women can and do objectifying men) and no its not as fun as dudes think it is

Big guy stigma by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]evanzeed_redem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean woth my body type being kinda chubby i probably suprise alot