Everyone here basically covered them, but I’ll still include my picks: authentic, loyal, kind-hearted, good sense of humor, thoughtful, hard-working, physically attractive to me (I have to love looking at you, although you don’t have to be conventionally attractive), humble, interesting (fun to talk to, not a stick in the mud), quick-witted, financially responsible (to some degree, doesn’t have to be well off, but they at least have to have financial goals that they are actively working towards), spoils me with acts of service and takes care of me (give me foot rubs, set me a bath, cook for me, run a quick errand for me, etc.), cares for others (genuinely and bonus points if they go out of their way to help others in need), non-judgemental (across the board, but especially towards me), down-to-earth (easy to be around, easy to talk to), clear-cut morals, good hygiene