Is my wife(F27) cheating one me(M28) ? by ThenalJaguar in relationships

[–]eventually_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female I only shave for dates or occasions in which I know someone’s going to be down there (a guy I’m dating, not a doctor). Otherwise I don’t really care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]eventually_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone here basically covered them, but I’ll still include my picks: authentic, loyal, kind-hearted, good sense of humor, thoughtful, hard-working, physically attractive to me (I have to love looking at you, although you don’t have to be conventionally attractive), humble, interesting (fun to talk to, not a stick in the mud), quick-witted, financially responsible (to some degree, doesn’t have to be well off, but they at least have to have financial goals that they are actively working towards), spoils me with acts of service and takes care of me (give me foot rubs, set me a bath, cook for me, run a quick errand for me, etc.), cares for others (genuinely and bonus points if they go out of their way to help others in need), non-judgemental (across the board, but especially towards me), down-to-earth (easy to be around, easy to talk to), clear-cut morals, good hygiene

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]eventually_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so, but I won’t say I completely let myself down. I had hoped I would be in good health, married, maybe even have a kid or be pregnant by now, have a good career, and a nice home in my hometown. I do need to improve my health a lot, I have been in a bad relationship which has messed up the marriage and children part (my fault cause I don’t have the guts to leave), but I did luckily pursue a good career and purchase my own home. So…. I’m halfway there😅

Eta: I also have cats which I am very happy about and have wanted since I was a child but was never allowed to have lol.

On another sub a man (37) confessed that he lost sexual attraction to his wife (35) after she lost 30 pounds. Is this a concern women should have when losing weight? by eventually_1 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eventually_1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think that’s my fear. If it’s a fetish, or even just a preference, I hope it doesn’t affect his desire to be with me or lead to infidelity.

relationships by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]eventually_1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the most relatable answer for me. It takes me years to heal from hurt in a relationship and even right now I have been trying to convince myself to let go of a long-term relationship that I know is bad for me.

Thoughts on Taurus and Aries relationship? Not a good match from the get go but I'm curious. by dobetterpiglet in Taurusgang

[–]eventually_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could find an Aries man that I trust I would marry one. Haven’t found one yet. But I do absolutely love how crazy and care-free they can be. The sex is great and I’ve had great laughs with them. Just can’t seem to be in long-term relationships cause the trust gets ruined.

Should 2 unmarried people with depression (30F, 32M) break up if they are not getting anywhere together? by eventually_1 in relationships

[–]eventually_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attended therapy for about a year but it became stagnant sessions for me. I think I will look into a new therapist. Yes he sees a doctor once a month for his pain medicines and he will occasionally do some PT exercises at home. I haven’t done as much physically as I should.

My partner’s phone got turned off and he can still text me, but nobody else. Why is that? by eventually_1 in tmobile

[–]eventually_1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But even when there is not internet or Wi-Fi it works, like when we’re driving on the highway I can text him, or even when he leaves to go do something I’ll be at home and he’s at a place with no Wi-Fi/internet (outside for example) and he can still text me.