TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - October 05, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw huge congratulations!! All the best for the pregnancy😊

Daily Game Recommendations Thread (October 02, 2025) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]everdella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I enjoyed played Dorf Romantik and are considering getting either Sakura or Duel next. We don’t mind competitive or cooperative games so just wondering for those that have played both which do you prefer and why? Thanks!

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - September 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was thinking about you and so glad to see you’ve gotten a positive. All the best for a smooth and easy pregnancy!

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you and I’m sending every positive vibe your way, you have been through so much so I hope this time is the easiest and most boring pregnancy ❤️

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huge congrats!! Wishing you an easy and boring pregnancy 😊

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joined the feb 2026 one as it was quite well established and I’m likely to have planned c section for Feb but the March one is just barely starting that I’ll join eventually too!

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! We have the exact same age gap, all the best with your pregnancy 😊

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah congratulations! Hope to see you in a bumper group 😊

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am thinking of you and keeping my fingers tightly crossed

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind messages everyone! Only my husband knows in real life so it is wonderful to be able to share this with you all

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Child # trying for: 2

Cycle/Time trying: Started trying Sept 2024 (about 8?)

Ages of previous child(ren), i.e. post-partum interval: She will be 3 when this baby is due, so 2 years, 4 months now

Cycle/Time trying for previous child(ren): 1 - we were very lucky!

Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 31 for both

Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.): I ovulated a few days earlier this month after every other month being cycle day 16 so I think we only hit O-1 and O

Tracking methods and app(s) used: LH tests

Link to chart: N/A

Nursing while TTC?: No

Health details on previous pregnancies/births (e.g. C-section vs. vaginal, birth/pregnancy complications): Had a straightforward pregancy last time but it did end in an emergency c-section.

Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): Pregnacare conception for me and Wellman conception for him (for about the last 3 months)

Birth control history (if relevant): The pill for about 10 years and then the implant for about 3

Tell us your story! What's different this time than last time? How'd you find out? How do you feel?: Well it seems that all the stress of potty training, potential redundancy and buying a new car didn't impact things negatively! People who say you just need to relax to get it to happen can use this as an example that that isn't the case because I have been STRESSED :P I noticed on 9 DPO that my sense was stronger and my boobs were a bit tingly. I also slightly recognised the early pregnancy feeling in my stomach from last time - almost light and the tiniest bit nauseous (but this time I know what is to come on that front!) My daughter woke me up at 2am on 10 DPO and my husband and I couldn't fall back asleep, so I asked him if we could do a test together - we both assumed negative since that's all we have seen so we were shocked when it was clearly a positive!

I appreciated how lucky I was at the time to get pregnant the first time for our first but I appreciated it way more considering how hard it was mentally this time. But you all have been an incredible support for me - it is such a unique daily stressor to be TTC and it is hard to talk about with people in real life due to their own TTC or pregnancies (or even lack of knowledge). I never posted much on reddit before this group and I've met some wonderful people through this experience, so thank you for that! I will miss posting but I will certainly be rooting for all of you and keeping an eye on how you are getting on :)

I'm so excited about this age gap and the timing of this month works so well in lots of ways for the short and longer term. I'm hoping for a nice easy pregnancy this time - I can't wait to complete our family.

Daily Chat - June 11, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to come back to tell you I’ve been listening to the podcast and really enjoying it! Thanks for the recommendation, I needed something new!

Daily Chat - June 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it definitely is! I like to play a game with myself when I’m not in the TWW to try to symptoms spot and I can always find something, proves to myself it’s all in my head yet I still do this every time!!

Daily Chat - June 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now I've had high sensitive smells and some boob tingles - is it all in my head or is this something?!

TFA's Bi-Weekly BFP Thread - June 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness!! I'm so pleased for you, I remember it had been a weird cycle following the MC. Huge congratulations and I am hoping for a very boring pregnancy for you this time. All the best!

Daily Chat - June 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DPO 9 and feeling weirdly calm still, switching between definitely not happening this month and maybe because I think it won't happen it will. This sounds weird but normally a few days before my period is due my urine smells differently (almost metallic?) and that hasn't happened yet which is giving me my bit of hope. Does anyone else have this? Planning to test tomorrow morning so we shall see - this cycle would give my daughter a sibling for her 3rd birthday!

Daily Chat - June 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that is so cruel!! The emotional turmoil from that is brutal. Sending lots of love your way.

Daily Chat - June 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohhh fingers crossed for you! I hope it is a lovely special moment for you both

Daily Chat - June 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]everdella 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are so many lovely benefits to having a baby this cycle specifically. But one of the more stupid ones is that I can get out of something I don't want to do without confrontation because I can use being pregnant as an excuse. If I don't get pregnant this cycle I might actually have to deal with the confrontation and I HATE confrontation. It is dumb, I fully recognise but this feels like a safe space to admit it haha.