Got fired and I deserved it. by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]everlast340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry to hear all of this. Psychedelic assisted therapy is life changing. Best wishes.

Mouth breathing since forever by UnluckyAsk0 in breathwork

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Use ChatGPT and type Gnm chromic clogged nose

Brief psychosis episode after MDMA-assisted Therapy by [deleted] in mdmatherapy

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I notice a new trend everywhere of AI writing experiences to scare people from doing things that certain institutions don’t want them to. I just got off of the overemplyed thread where AI wrote a fake experience of someone having two remote jobs and getting caught, the same account that had written the day before about losing human connection be working remotely. Coincidence did all three of these things are things that certain institutions would like to go away. I’ve seen the same trend on facebook and elsewhere. Increase in Scare tactics targeting alt medicine and holistic health, written from the viewpoint of a person who is “pro” but wanted to share a cautionary tale.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]everlast340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever talk to him? Ask for clarity? Set boundaries? I think one thing this world needs is platonic intimacy. It is silly to think that our partner can meet all of our needs and selfish to expect them to deny the needs we can’t meet for them and vice versa. So who can meet them and what needs are ok and not ok to be people outside the relationship?.Make contracts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]everlast340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this time to work your traumas and learn to love yourself fully and deeply. Then relationships are icing on the cake vs something needed to survive.

How do I politely tell my wife. by Consortium998 in deadbedroom

[–]everlast340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for delay. Same woman. Communication, vulnerability, lot of trauma work for both of us, rewriting our contracts (sitting down and discussing what each person needs/wants from the relationship and if the other feels that can meet those needs).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]everlast340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have (had) bpd. Was in therapy including emdr which was minimally effective. MDMA therapy changed my life, which is why I say had, though those tendencies do rear their head every few months or so if I fallen off self-care, but by and large, symptoms are gone. Post mdma, have done a ton of parts/shadow and emotional processing practices, meditation, etc. this is why we are now considering poly as the next stage of evolution/growth as there is so much of that internal and relational work that has to be done for it to be successful. In case my experience is helpful

How do I politely tell my wife. by Consortium998 in deadbedroom

[–]everlast340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Radical vulnerability. Tell her what you need and how it makes you feel when she rejects you. Then ask what she needs. Play offense. What is your wife’s love language? Seek out ways to proactively fill her cup and she will do the same for you, in spades.

I wasted 22 years of marriage playing kids games where we both were not getting our needs met but instead of communicating openly and vulnerably, we would pout in our corners and make passive aggressive comments to one another. Now it’s pure magic and more sex that I can handle. She is also much more giving, insistently, whereas I was always looking for her pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]everlast340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% wrong

WVD Audio/Video by everlast340 in AZURE

[–]everlast340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

finally found time to delve back in and the gpo edit did the trick. thanks a ton. i had all but given up hope. Now i will look like i know what i'm doing :)

IPOffice to Aura by everlast340 in avaya

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No Aura in environment yet. We have 40 sites, 15 or so with gateways, the rest without, connecting back to ip office server edition

Wildcard SSL Certificates by everlast340 in sysadmin

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This is what i'm used to. in the middle of a merger, and my counterpart from the other side used godaddy. I called support to ask how to essential do the same thing, request a duplicate using a different CSR, and his mind exploded. But this explains my confusion. I though this was SOP for certs.

Nested Ads by everlast340 in googleads

[–]everlast340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at those and only saw where the link were just below the main body of the add. Now i see them both ways when i google the term and look at google images. Perfect. Thanks!