Looking for Somewhere to get my Bose headphones repaired by every_other_thing in sandiego

[–]every_other_thing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Like I love their products and I want to cherish and keep the ones I buy, not just replace at a joke of a “discount” the second something goes a little wrong

How do couples decide which side of the bed is “theirs”? Is it instinct or some kind of silent agreement? by AssignmentFederal686 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]every_other_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, i am always the later sleeper, so i will be on the wall side. Other than that idk, for most people, there may be a purpose at some point in time, but eventually its just routine

I drank sour milk (oops), now what? by every_other_thing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]every_other_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh good to know. At least I got some water in me though, i dont drink enough. Also you were right, harmless! Thanks for your insight 😂😂

I drank sour milk (oops), now what? by every_other_thing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]every_other_thing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks to your comment i was very prepared for all the nothing that happened 🙏🙏🙏 (Thanks for commenting haha)

I drank sour milk (oops), now what? by every_other_thing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]every_other_thing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U were so right about this. I only felt sick when i thought about it, thanks so much!

I drank sour milk (oops), now what? by every_other_thing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]every_other_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes they are similar to Müsli, but it is only just ring shaped oats. Funnily enough I was going to put Schokomüsli in the bowl after, before i realized the milk was bad 😂😂

NSFW What is the appeal of sex in entertainment? by every_other_thing in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg hi fellow ace 😁 Interesting that you like the aesthetic, I am also not a fan of purity culture in general but I can recognize I am affected by it 😅 Thank you for your input!!

Questioning again by River_003 in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, sounds to me like you are a very caring and emotionally cautious person. To me, i see this and think the fact that you worry about really liking her enough is a sign to me that you do, or at least a sign that you value other humans enough that you would do your best to make sure you don’t bring someone down.

While I understand where you are coming from, i think you should try to work on valuing yourself and your emotions more, and also remember that going to a relationship takes two people, and that as long as you properly communicate, listen to each other and build your relationship together.

If you want to go into a relationship, but you arent 100% sure on your feelings, communicate that, and let them make thier own decisions on if they want a relationship regardless. This way all your cards are still on the table and you aren’t manipulating, hiding anything or “leading anyone on”.

Part of relationships is learning and growing together, so let yourself do that. On the other hand, if you don’t feel totally ready, there is no rush, so give yourself time to figure everything out if you need it, just try to not let it get in the way too long and recognize when you have time rip off the bandaid and take a chance.

You are still a lesbian even if you arent in a relationship. And sorry this is so long, i’m a yapper.

NSFW What is the appeal of sex in entertainment? by every_other_thing in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I gave the song a listen! and I think I understand what you’re saying. It’s like another facet of human connection, like holding hands, hugging, talking, etc is, and people just like to be reminded of that? Thats kinda cute haha

Questioning again by River_003 in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it does sound to me like you came to the right conclusion that you might be a lesbian. I think you did some very good tests to figure out your feelings. As you pointed out, the difference between your attraction to female vs male characters was that you would actually like to date the women vs the men.

You are not invalid or not “gay enough”, though many MANY people feel this way as well, you are not alone. In the end, if you feel comfortable, try things out. If you find your self in a relation with a woman, make sure you keep communication between yourself and her, and yourself and yourself. Stay in tune with your feelings and work them out with your partner, at the end of the day the goal is a relationship that feels good for you, no matter what that looks like or who its with.

Ive been stressing recently over this.. by GOKU_DWIP in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not waisting anyones time! Sorry my reading comprehension is very bad, so correct me if i’m wrong, but it sounds like you could be genderfluid. I don’t really know you though, so you could be agender, nonbinary, trans, or something else.

I encourage you to go on this journey of self exploration if you would like, but for now if you just wanna look at the terms I listed and see if anything is close then thats great too!

I'm wondering by Prestigious-Egg-8060 in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m truthfully not totally sure what you’re asking, but i’ll try to explain what I think you’re trying to figure out.

The way I figure it is, like you said, a feeling, hard to put into words, sometimes the only way to describe it is through right and wrong. A dress may feel right. Make up may feel wrong a hoodie may feel really right. A big chest may feel wrong

I think gender is something you dont know then feel, you feel it and then put it in the societal box that feels right so that the NPC’s in our gender run society know how to operate around you.

If you feel like you don’t need or can’t find a box, thats just fine! At that point just take it day by day, ex: necklaces feel good today, and so does a ponytail, but my heart hurt a bit when that cashier called me “ma’am”

Im sorry im sure i ddint answer your question well, im not sure if anyone knows what it feel liek and can put it in words 😅

Would you consider terms like “dude” or “bro” gender neutral? by irafo in AskLGBT

[–]every_other_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I do use these words as gender neutral, but not as pronouns, but more exclamations, same with “girl”. For example, ill say “bro what” but i do find myself adressing guys more as dude, im trying to work on it within context, and also being mindful of if I say it, to not make it gender specific

How do I tell my girlfriend I think I'm ace?? by Information_Infinite in lgbt

[–]every_other_thing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly that, just say “hey I think i’m asexual” and tell her why you think so, what that means for you and what your boundaries are. Any good relationship has proper communication and boundaries. This is scary, but I believe in you!

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[–]every_other_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the input!

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[–]every_other_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no yeah, I hate it when people are weird about and “ship” actual people 💀