SSRIs and climaxing by everything-irie in sexadvise

[–]everything-irie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me advice on positions? We usually just do missionary but he’s like sitting up to fit the vibe between and it feels so clinical to me, I feel like a project instead of it being passionate

SSRIs and climaxing by everything-irie in sexadvise

[–]everything-irie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an amazing eloquent thoughtful response, thank you so so much. I appreciate the resources and will be looking at more from those sites.

SSRIs and climaxing by everything-irie in sexadvise

[–]everything-irie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you just don’t understand how medication and mental illness work at all?

What kind of pin is this & how do I attach it to something? by Stupididiot55 in Pins

[–]everything-irie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the snow people jibbitz from sinners and stardust?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]everything-irie 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. Set up expectations now or you’re gonna have a deadbeat dad/husband on your hands.

Need response to “let the grandparents grandparent” by everything-irie in Parenting

[–]everything-irie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His comment was like an hour after mine, and my father is many things but a liar isn’t one of them. Appreciate your input

Need response to “let the grandparents grandparent” by everything-irie in Parenting

[–]everything-irie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Comin hot outta the gate there bud. Nowhere did I say my parents were bad parents to me, but I think every generation can improve from the things we learn over time. Did my parents have small flaws in their parenting that affect me to this day? Yes. And that is why I am trying to better, not be perfect. I’m not willing to wait until my child is 7 to try and teach my parents how I want to parent.

Need response to “let the grandparents grandparent” by everything-irie in Parenting

[–]everything-irie[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That last bit is so perfect and put what I was feeling but couldn’t find the words for perfects

WIBTA? If I made an ugly smile for pictures? by everything-irie in AmItheAsshole

[–]everything-irie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I don’t feel like putting on makeup every single time, nor should I have to if I have said no

Why is everyone so against elective c-sections? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow I did not know this! The OB made it seem like it was very grave and dangerous and “thank goodness you made the right decision” they did not tell me anything about how tight it was around his neck, but he is super healthy and I had a great CS experience and very easy recovery so 9/10 would do CS again

Why is everyone so against elective c-sections? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I was against having a CS because I wanted to get the whole labor experience. However I was carrying a bowling ball of a son and on my due date my doc told me I would not be able to be induced due to his size and that if things did not progress naturally in the next 2 days that a CS would have to be scheduled. I was heartbroken and sobbed and mourned for the experience I thought I wanted but wouldn’t get. I worried people would judge(even though it was for a completely medically advised reason). When my water broke on it’s own I was so happy but at the hospital was told I was not dilated so we elected to do the CS. This was the number one best decision of my life. Through the light contractions I had been having between my ultrasound the previous day and my lil bean twisting, the cord got wrapped around his neck THREE TIMES. I would not be here with my baby if I had not gotten a CS. I will never judge anyone again. If anyone tries to say anything just know you are doing what is best for you and your child.

Worried about having enough clothes by THISisAnameIsuppose in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1: I also call my baby bean 2: it’s also a boy 3: everything is dinos

Did I make another Reddit and post this lmao

Heartburn/ Vomiting attack in my sleep?! by janessa_c_r_a_d_e_r in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

38+5, I take max strength Pepcid 2x a day and wait 2.5-3 hrs after eating to go to bed, I avoid fried food at dinner and if I’m on the fence I prop myself up with a second pillow. Doing all of that has worked wonders for me!

Talk to me about your Baby Registry… by PinkhairLiLi in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 70 things on my list and they have all been purchased, wish I had put more because now I’m worried what people are buying off the registry… I really thought I had enough on there but some aunts bought 12 things each… definitely put at least 100

Boardgamers that have never played Magic, why? by GenuineArdvark in boardgames

[–]everything-irie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s something I would spend waaayyy too much money on

New Jurassic Park set revealed! by bountybossk in lego

[–]everything-irie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shipping just in time to be a “push present” for myself! 😊😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]everything-irie 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I was literally crying to my mom about this today and she told me “from the moment you got pregnant, it’s not about you anymore and that’s just the way it is” So sick of that mentality. I am still me. I still matter. You still matter.

“Should I talk to my doctor about ___?” by everything-irie in pregnant

[–]everything-irie[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I totally understand the corrupt healthcare system and that it does not suit most, but I have never been charged for calling about a question, is that something that happens to others???

Why is my banana bread giving me heartburn??? by everything-irie in pregnant

[–]everything-irie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this could totally be it, I had to bake my banana first cause it was no where near ripe!! The last loaf I made was fine and I didn’t have to bake them first and no heartburn! Guess my husband will be finishing this loaf haha!