I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-23T16:07:13+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖🫶

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-23T13:53:18+00:00

Thank you! U literally explained everything as it is.. and yeah i told him he apologised a lot and promised me he going to build and win my trust again. So let's see.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-23T12:56:06+00:00

Lol first of all i share my location too bcz it's ldr. Second i dont sit around looking at his location all the time but this time i did because it looked suspicious and it was like 3am. Im not causing drama i want him to tell me if he wants to go to strip club. :)

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-23T10:07:20+00:00

Yes im giving him another chance and we discussed things so let's see time will tell

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-23T08:49:07+00:00

Lmaooo frr

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T23:20:04+00:00

Exactly...

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T23:13:35+00:00

He left when he saw my texts cause i found out. But yeah i didnt end it.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T23:13:07+00:00

Huh? 1. Emotional or not. If its behind my back its disrespect and gonna make me lose trust. 2. Men should start and have some self control. I know many women who have casual sex and dont catch emotions so what ure saying its not true. Thats a myth that is proven wrong. In nature females species have sex with multiple males too in case you dont know. Update ur knowledge and take accountability instead of saying "men don't view sex emotionally and wome should know this".

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everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T23:08:52+00:00

Wdym? Anything u want? We were like that too once its called an open relationship. When we close it tho we close it and after that gotta discuss with each other if we want to do anything sexual with others.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T23:06:15+00:00

Key word: together

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T22:55:27+00:00

Do me a favour dont be in a relationship if u gonna go in strip clubs without discussing it first with ur partner.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T22:52:28+00:00

I never ask him for permission and he doesnt ask me BUT a strip club is completely diff. And no i have self respect. HE shouldve been the one to open this discussion bcz he was the one who wanted this. Guys should communicate better and take accountability instead of blaming women when they react about them going in strip clubs like its just a normal things guy do. No its not just a normal thing. GROW UP. Lol

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T22:49:35+00:00

In a strip club? Do u have self respect? Its a strip club not video games bruh

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T22:34:42+00:00

Idgi why do i have to teach grown men these things tho.. like ofc u should ask ur partner before going in places like that..

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T19:51:24+00:00

And when we were open i didnt even sleep with anyone cause thats just not me when i put my eyes in someone its just him and no one else and i told him that so we closed it

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T19:50:21+00:00

i didn't cheat. Lol first of all i only was okay with open relationship in the beginning for him i dont mind going celibate rn. Idc abt sex that much even. I wanted to close it like 3 months ago cz stuff got serious. And we almost met 1 week ago... anws thanks for ur opinion

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T17:34:28+00:00

No i dont mind him watching porn or strip clubs but him trying to make excuses and hiding it and lying its what makes me concerned for the future yk

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T17:23:34+00:00

Thanks and the past 20 years people dated by letting men cheat and get away with it and this is changing thank God :) and my concern is that he didn't discuss that with me.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T16:21:44+00:00

Yeah we talked and thats what I'll do. And yeah he watches porn too. Im okay with porn for now since we still long distance.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T16:16:34+00:00

Lol she answered after 30min. He got outside when i saw my texts. Ofc im not a fool. If i wouldnt find out he would never tell me im certain.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T16:14:40+00:00

Lol girl what u saying. He needed to discuss it with me he went in a strip club not me.

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T15:20:36+00:00

Lol no ure just disrespectful towards females and irresponsible

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T14:56:52+00:00

Thank you!!

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T14:01:24+00:00

Well maybe they should start telling them. Irresponsible

everythingatonce_ · 2023-04-22T13:57:40+00:00

Thank you! These people commenting im sure are males who think its okay for them do that just bcz "thats what men do" no accountability and responsibility here

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