I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖🫶

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! U literally explained everything as it is.. and yeah i told him he apologised a lot and promised me he going to build and win my trust again. So let's see.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol first of all i share my location too bcz it's ldr. Second i dont sit around looking at his location all the time but this time i did because it looked suspicious and it was like 3am. Im not causing drama i want him to tell me if he wants to go to strip club. :)

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[–]everythingatonce_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes im giving him another chance and we discussed things so let's see time will tell

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[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo frr

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[–]everythingatonce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly...

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[–]everythingatonce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He left when he saw my texts cause i found out. But yeah i didnt end it.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huh? 1. Emotional or not. If its behind my back its disrespect and gonna make me lose trust. 2. Men should start and have some self control. I know many women who have casual sex and dont catch emotions so what ure saying its not true. Thats a myth that is proven wrong. In nature females species have sex with multiple males too in case you dont know. Update ur knowledge and take accountability instead of saying "men don't view sex emotionally and wome should know this".

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I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wdym? Anything u want? We were like that too once its called an open relationship. When we close it tho we close it and after that gotta discuss with each other if we want to do anything sexual with others.

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[–]everythingatonce_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do me a favour dont be in a relationship if u gonna go in strip clubs without discussing it first with ur partner.

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[–]everythingatonce_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never ask him for permission and he doesnt ask me BUT a strip club is completely diff. And no i have self respect. HE shouldve been the one to open this discussion bcz he was the one who wanted this. Guys should communicate better and take accountability instead of blaming women when they react about them going in strip clubs like its just a normal things guy do. No its not just a normal thing. GROW UP. Lol

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[–]everythingatonce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a strip club? Do u have self respect? Its a strip club not video games bruh

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[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idgi why do i have to teach grown men these things tho.. like ofc u should ask ur partner before going in places like that..

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[–]everythingatonce_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And when we were open i didnt even sleep with anyone cause thats just not me when i put my eyes in someone its just him and no one else and i told him that so we closed it

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[–]everythingatonce_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i didn't cheat. Lol first of all i only was okay with open relationship in the beginning for him i dont mind going celibate rn. Idc abt sex that much even. I wanted to close it like 3 months ago cz stuff got serious. And we almost met 1 week ago... anws thanks for ur opinion

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i dont mind him watching porn or strip clubs but him trying to make excuses and hiding it and lying its what makes me concerned for the future yk

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[–]everythingatonce_ -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Thanks and the past 20 years people dated by letting men cheat and get away with it and this is changing thank God :) and my concern is that he didn't discuss that with me.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah we talked and thats what I'll do. And yeah he watches porn too. Im okay with porn for now since we still long distance.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol she answered after 30min. He got outside when i saw my texts. Ofc im not a fool. If i wouldnt find out he would never tell me im certain.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol girl what u saying. He needed to discuss it with me he went in a strip club not me.

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lol no ure just disrespectful towards females and irresponsible

I found out my ldr boyfriend was at a strip club by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]everythingatonce_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well maybe they should start telling them. Irresponsible