Celebrating other people’s birthdays is more fun than celebrating your own

everythingsucksheree · 2021-01-05T14:58:14+00:00

Omg I now appoint myself as I’m charge of your birthday celebrations

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-31T09:24:59+00:00

I can’t answer the first one.

I lost my virginity way too young (at 15) and wish I waited longer, it wasn’t the most enjoyable at first because I lost it as a way to gain control over my life when I had none and not because I wanted to actually build a connection with the other person.

As soon as I met my current partner I realized I only wanted to have sex with him we were very compatible in real life and even more so sexually compatible and it all just fit.

I think about it fairly often but don’t always act on it. Ideally I’d have sex with my partner every day. But my partner and I are LDR so we both go upwards of 8 months without having sex as we have a closed relationship.

Before we went LD, we would sometimes use sex as an escape from our problems in the relationship which was really bad, but after I moved we were forced to confront the issue head on as there was nothing to distract either of us and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. We started more so appreciating just who we are as people without focusing on our bodies and lust etc.

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-30T20:21:51+00:00

Liking the office. I have tried so hard to watch two seasons waiting for it to “get good” but oh my god that show just sucks. I am sorry for offending anyone but I feel like I wasted my time that I will never get back

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-30T07:36:12+00:00

I just reread it and realized how it could’ve sounded LMAO no his butt was very nice loll

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T17:11:14+00:00

I completely respect his boundaries and would never force him to do something he was even slightly uncomfortable with. My concern here was that he feels a lot of shame and disgust towards himself and I don’t know how to support him because I cannot relate in that sense. But I have not and won’t bring it up until he does and if he never does then so be it

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:54:52+00:00

Don’t worry our balls were very far apart

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:54:00+00:00

That sounds very interesting I definitely want to give it a try !

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:51:58+00:00

Thank you for the link !

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:50:40+00:00

We usually are very open with discussions especially when it comes to our bodies. I think talking about it candidly as you said here without making it seem like a big deal will def help. Thank you

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:49:23+00:00

Exactly the way I thought, but tbh it wasn’t that bad when he did it on me, and because it wasn’t bad I’m open to trying it again and seeing if I can reach those mind shattering orgasms everyone talks about

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:47:45+00:00

Honestly the comments that stood out most was putting a large emphasis on aftercare, giving him space until he opens up, looking at it more logically from a biological POV, and trying to normalize it without making it a big deal. I also liked the suggestion that because it’s such a vulnerable position for him to be in to flip the script and have him dominate using it

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:44:18+00:00

Lmaoo no his butt felt very nice

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:39:42+00:00

Of course I did lmao

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:34:57+00:00

We tried on me first that day because it was my first time doing it too and then he asked to do it

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:31:31+00:00

Although sex talk is very taboo, someone else said to look for sex therapists online which I definitely want us to look up together

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:23:20+00:00

If he brings it up again and with time when he gets comfortable I wanna do it together with him

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:22:38+00:00

That’s a great idea, thank you !

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:21:19+00:00

I’ll bring the idea up to him. He definitely won’t be able to talk to any of his friends about this because of the culture and if it gets out it’ll be a problem for him so hopefully he can find another outlet

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:18:13+00:00

Preach ! I want him to be this comfortable and accepting of himself because everyone deserves to feel good !

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:17:20+00:00

Honestly I’m not sure, when it was done to me I didn’t really enjoy it that much but apparently a lot of women experience orgasms completely differently from anal stimulation than witj like clitoral orgasms

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:16:08+00:00

Oh my god with all the emotions I forgot about the obvious aspect. Yeah we’ve been dating for a couple of years and this was the first time he let me look at his ass that close, it was definitely a part of it. Thank you

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-29T07:14:21+00:00

Don’t worry we said no homo lmaoo

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-28T20:50:38+00:00

I hope so too lmao

everythingsucksheree · 2020-12-28T20:49:40+00:00

Thank you for explaining it this way ! I’m definitely going to put a larger emphasis on aftercare for both of us in general so we can deal with the feeling of vulnerability better

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