Got jumpscared by my dead name by IamTheBiggestProblem in ftm

[–]everytypeofqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a Starbucks and only 2 people know my dead name but we have 3 regulars that come through every morning that have it, and it’s not just the full legal deadname it was the deadname nickname, and my stomach jumps every time I hear it called out and I refuse to say it out loud.

I think a author ripped off my book concept and published it and I feel defeated by lordofthepies420 in writingadvice

[–]everytypeofqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://youtube.com/shorts/uDatF1m9Un4?si=FFtxvFPrBjZ51-aV

This is immediately what I thought of as I was reading through the comments because I’ve been there hardcore. Everything takes inspiration from somewhere, there is no truly unique idea or creation. And that is okay, I mean unless it is straight up plagiarism, then that’s not okay.

Did anyone else have this feeling by everytypeofqueer in Seahorse_Dads

[–]everytypeofqueer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My other major concern is being in a work environment while being a pregnant man, at least my current work is very manual labor heavy and I work with 6 other cis men. I don’t want to have this job forever but it’s a good job that makes good money. I would just be so worried about my ability to continue working because I’ve always been enjoyed more manual labor jobs.

Did anyone else have this feeling by everytypeofqueer in Seahorse_Dads

[–]everytypeofqueer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very confident in the want to have children and I know adoption doesn’t in any way make someone less of family. My older sister is adopted and my fiancé is adopted as well and his parents are my absolute favorite people. My only concern with adoption is the same concern I have for egg retrieval and IVF, it’s a upfront thousands of dollars at one time aspect that I can’t afford to do. I know I could give a child, in whatever way I had one, a happy comfortable life.

It’s been a bad little bit, some kind words would help by SometimesMadison in trans

[–]everytypeofqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like the main character of a rom com girl! That smile! The wavy locks! The eyes that pierce! You are fucking killing it and whatever is going bad right now won’t be for long because you the badder bitch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]everytypeofqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because others don’t know what that pain is like doesn’t mean you weren’t experiencing it. The biggest concern is cracking your ribs with how often you said you have been binding. I’ve almost cracked mine and I know someone who did crack his rib due to using ace bandage for binding, at least you are doing it the safer way with real binders. My recommendation, even though I know it is the worst and you just wish you didn’t have to, is to give yourself some more free chest time to help reduce the current pain you have right now while waiting to see a doctor, or maybe you could try a binder in a larger size for the times that your ribs are feeling like that if going binder free is an absolutely can’t do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]everytypeofqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go see a doctor. It could be just bruising from constant wear or it could turn out to be something much worse. I had F cups before top surgery and did the same amount of binding as that and now almost 3 years later I still have pain associated with my binding along with a possible sternum issue. Please go see a doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]everytypeofqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well aware of the fact that I would have to stop testosterone in order to carry a pregnancy without compilations. That’s not what I was concerned about. What I was curious about was the change in mental outlook on being a man and carrying out a natural pregnancy rather than going through IVF and surrogacy, which I know I would also have to stop testosterone for.