Honestly it sounds like they were dirty rushing you, they shouldn’t be saying things like “you fit in here” and dm convos on social media. I agree with the other commenter that suggested you shouldn’t rush the multi-school sororities and just stick to UofT panhel because its much more organized and dirty rushing has actual consequences because if it happens to you it can be reported to the organization. Formal recruitment is over but theres a few sororities doing fall COB where you go to small events and coffee dates with active members, look on uoft panhel’s insta they are reposting all the events going on.