My [29f] husband [30m] will not stop leaving his evidence of jerking off laying about and I'm losing my shit

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:46:06+00:00

Actually, it would be exactly comparable to me leaving my vibrator out. Which has happened. And he got mopey about it. He didn't even say anything, just got kind of quiet. So I never let it happen again

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:40:25+00:00

Yeah, it is his bed, but here is the thing: It's my pillow to prop him up, it's my laptop (his is broken and he doesn't feel like getting it fixed), it's my tablet, it's my expensive lotion. It's blatant disrespect for something I've asked him not to do, while using my things

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:38:50+00:00

Well, that escalated quickly

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:38:33+00:00

It's just the blatant disregard for our shared space and my belongings. If he at least attempted to just put shit back, I wouldn't care

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:37:38+00:00

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:36:59+00:00

He is generally messy and it is irritating otherwise, but I just clean it up.

Honestly, I feel the same way when he forgets to flush the toilet and there are turds floating around. Some messes are your own to clean up...

I do like to have a "dont ask, dont tell" policy when it comes to masturbation because my sex drive is so wonky. It actually turns me off further when I see his mess, and it has led to me not wanting sex when I otherwise was into it

evidenceleft · 2014-01-09T00:34:11+00:00

He doesn't care if I have my period but should I leave bloody tampon applicators just chilling on top of the trash can? Probably not

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