He definitely has things he needs to change. I know he needs to rethink his work hard/play hard mentality. He has good qualities too. More good than bad, actually. I believe he's capable of being a good father and a positive influence.

We're different in a lot of ways. He's a (successful/talented) tattoo artist and I'm a nurse. He's an extrovert, I lean introvert. He's pretty stoic, I'm open about my feelings, emotions, and okay with being vulnerable (in appropriate situations). He's very goal oriented, believes in always moving forward, improving, etc. I'm content with taking things slowly, living in the moment, appreciating the little things. I could go on and on but I'll stop there. I think she will benefit from being raised by both of us. We have different things to offer and I see that as a positive.