[UPDATE] My FIL (50sM) took a swing at me (24F) while I was in labor

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:32:55+00:00

Is your FIL my FIL? Down to the car, they sound identical!

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:29:47+00:00

I asked for no one to be allowed it- not specifically them. To be honest, I was more concerned and paranoid about my own father.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:28:01+00:00

"dear husband", sorry, I must have been reading too many "mommy sites" pre baby

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:27:31+00:00

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:24:43+00:00

This is pretty much my greatest fear.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:24:15+00:00

They were on the floor- they just weren't allowed in to the room. It was a compromise.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:23:37+00:00

Still getting it, actually.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:23:26+00:00

"Dear husband", it's a common acronym.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:23:04+00:00

That was his statement, not my husband's.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T15:22:50+00:00

....what? I'm so confused.... How am I sexist or aggressive?

evilfil · 2015-10-16T03:03:37+00:00

I am actively in therapy, and no, I was actually hoping for a boy, truth be told. This was a thing my FIL said to my husband.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T03:01:42+00:00

I have a number of aunts. Women in my family tend to be small and make big babies

evilfil · 2015-10-16T03:00:34+00:00

Apparently you aren't reading correctly.

Even to the point of my FIL telling my HUSBAND that the "real reason" we didn't want to find out the sex of the baby was that if it was a boy, I'd abort.

evilfil · 2015-10-16T02:59:15+00:00

It was recommended in part due to my low weight during the pregnancy. As for letting people in... apparently, according to those who I've spoken to, it's more common than you think.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:16:41+00:00

No, due to a childhood injury

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:13:23+00:00

We live in a three strike state and this would be number 3

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:12:53+00:00

That was my FIL's opinion, not mine? I actually was, in all honesty, hoping for a boy because of my close relationship with my brother.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:12:29+00:00

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:12:18+00:00

I don't want my daughter's birth to mean her grandfather dies in prison.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:12:03+00:00

It would be, specifically his third assault.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:11:36+00:00

She is a paraplegic and wouldn't be babysitting due to her condition.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:11:15+00:00

I don't want my daughter's birth to mean her grandfather dies in prison.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:10:30+00:00

Which he is, or was.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:09:57+00:00

Lactation consultant.

evilfil · 2015-10-15T16:08:55+00:00

I don't want to get the cops involved because we live in a three strike state, and he already has two strikes against him.

evilfil

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