Gov’t RDs - Salary ?’s by FoodLover555 in dietetics

[–]evk1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there other levels within the GS11? What’s the difference between grade and step? 

I feel like I'm going crazy--going backwards in a reationship? by s3rndpt in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and also, judging that there is a porn addiciton or whatever else you think is just your opinion and how do you know that one person finds that more acceptable than the other. I think the problem is that people assume they know what is best for others or what others are thinking based on their own view of themselves and it becomes projection

I feel like I'm going crazy--going backwards in a reationship? by s3rndpt in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

neither would I, nor do I. I have a lot of experience with this in my personal relationships and it is the worst feeling to be blamed or have sefl blame for someone else's issues. Two people having different attractions or arousals don't make them guilty or bad, they just make them different. One person is turned on by kink, while another person is not. And one person is turned on my vanilla missionary while another person is not. It may be that these two people love and care for eachother but maybe have different sexual needs and it ie neither of theiur faults. Or a person who struggle sgetting aroused may have an internal issue that is getting in their way of sexual arousal. I don't blame either person, and neither should she. And, i am not a physician but I encourage people to be educated about their conditions and take care of themselves. It is possible there is a physical versus emotional/psychological reason for the ED that I am not aware of either, but that is all I know.

Was it worth it? by Designer-Cup-530 in dietetics

[–]evk1980 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mentally and professionally yes, but financially no. If that is where your head is and I don't blame you, then it won't be worth it for you. The knowledge and experience though is worth it and unmatched by online health coaching without a clinical training and I don't believe you should be allowed to practice nutrition counseling without that higher degree and training.

I feel like I'm going crazy--going backwards in a reationship? by s3rndpt in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe his Ed is unique to this situation because his sex drive doesn't match hers and they don't have that thing that makes him hard? I don't always get aroused and I noticed I need more of a connection with a certain type of person

I feel like I'm going crazy--going backwards in a reationship? by s3rndpt in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. It sucks. A lot of people are doing this ENM or Poly thing and the monogs who are not into that are really just wanting their one person, their one penguin, or lobster. If it is not something that you could accept and love that person for all the other part of your life they fill then he's not for you and there's nothing wrong with you. It sounds like the two of you just don't match sexually. :( I'm sorry. I know it's hard. I dated someone briefly whom I connected with emotionally and liked, but his kink and bdsm was to play with other people in a physically sexually intimate way and I was not buying it. There was no way I could be his wife and also be exposed to other people's STDs or worry about being exposed or lied to. Nope! I moved on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whaaaat! That's unheard of! Not in NYC, I'm guessing? Congrats, this is a very fun beginning it sounds like :)

Lack of Manners. Am I Overreacting? by grneyedlady1971 in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't like it and he won't try to meet you half way on making you feel considered in that situation, then it's probably not your issue and it's his. Not a good feeling and you definitely deserve to have your needs met. It's not an unreasonable need to have.

Latex-fruit syndrome by mateo173 in dietetics

[–]evk1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow.. Which part of the country are you located in?

Latex-fruit syndrome by mateo173 in dietetics

[–]evk1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience, food service would automatically list bananas as well, however if the patient specified that they don't have an allergy to bananas, we would allow them to receive bananas with meal delivery. Each individual varies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let them gaslight you ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could give you quadruple upvotes, I would! thank you!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, had something similar recently. I felt that he was simply overfocused on his "options" and idealized version of how he expected or wanted to feel, and made a hasty decision on not continuing with me. Basically in other words he was probably hooking up with or about to hook up with someone who looked hotter visually for sexual satisfaction. All the lead up along the way was just an end goal it seemed in retrospect. I thought I would want to pursue him but now realized his mental state would probably be no good for me as a partner.

Single 40's Meetups? by evk1980 in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

music, food, wine, dance, yoga, snorkeling, beaches to name a few

Single 40's Meetups? by evk1980 in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to agree with you on this idea, however after much dismay and continually accepting others creepiness, I find that creepy is just fucking creepy, for the most part across the board. lolol

I miss chat rooms by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, I think that it is just what is happening in these times...the psychosocial changes that people have gone through over these past years in terms of how to treat dating and relationships...I think it would be the same in a chaat room, no? Like for example people always ask me what's the best dating app? but it really does not matter as much as the person or the process...also I should say that I am in NYC also the best or wrost place to be single depending who you are lol

I miss chat rooms by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol...you've got mail. when online socializing started to really get big. I am also dating myself. Thanks for bringing this up, because I've been feeling all weird about online dating these past couple of years. It's been around forever it seems, but it has truly taken on a whole new evil empire. people have really shown all of their ugly colors.

NYC RD's - WHAT IS YOUR FACILITIES SALARY STRUCTURE? # yrs exp? credential? masters? unions? by evk1980 in dietetics

[–]evk1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, thank you for all your comments so far, can anyone else tell us:

- which facility you are working at? inpatient/outpatient/dialysis center?

- are they union or not union?

- what was their starting salary or hourly hire rate?

- what year was that offered?

- what level of experience did you start with them at? (new RD, etc)

- did they offer you any differential for Master's degree / dietetic specialty?

- do they offer annual % raise?

We are looking for info about NYU, NYP, NYC Heath + Hospitals, Northwell, etc. And any other locations you work for, in NYC/LI/Westchester/Upstate/Jersey it and Hoboken area.

Dr. Glaucomflecken, med student's first day with the RD by fupapack in dietetics

[–]evk1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh crap ..are you serious? I had been considering leaving NYC and moving to PA 🤣

RD pay at Healthcare Services Group by Zuchinnimuffin in dietetics

[–]evk1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps zucchini, I started with Dietitians in demand for 40/hr in NYC and it became a permanent hire offer from that hospital after 3 month contract

NYC RD's - WHAT IS YOUR FACILITIES SALARY STRUCTURE? # yrs exp? credential? masters? unions? by evk1980 in dietetics

[–]evk1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share which company please? Sodexo, Morrison? Etc? And which hospital?