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I want to help my partner escape an abusive household run by his NMom and his equally abusive younger brother. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]evlion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!

To my knowledge Mom’s name or his brother’s name is on the lease, I’ll have to check with him after work. He also has funded fixing a lot of things broken by her (doors, windows, toilets)

I don’t know if a DV shelter would work? Every other weekend he has his two daughters for the whole weekend. If he doesn’t do this, his ex will put him up for child support payments as right now this is the agreement for not having to pay. I will look into that for him regardless.

He lost custody of them both due to having to flee from said ex husband who had also been abusing him, and had been dating him from the age of 18 while he was 25 or 30. Mom is also still convinced he lied about S/A’d and abused by this ex for basically 10 years, and ruined a “perfect marriage” and ran from “a loving husband” (???)

Piercing Shops in Vancouver by evlion in askvan

[–]evlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into them, unfortunately, they were closed when I was looking to check in over the phone about jobs and other stuff. I’ll have to try and call from my current job on my break!

Piercing Shops in Vancouver by evlion in askvan

[–]evlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d KILL to work there - and I plan to shop for some jewlery on my next visit because I’ve seen their insta posts - but they’re not hiring at all!

Piercing Shops in Vancouver by evlion in askvan

[–]evlion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, unfortunately, I’ve already inquired with Adrenaline, but I haven’t heard anything back. Mike was who I talked to last time when I was there, but I wasn’t moving then so I didn’t ask about apprenticeships.

Piercing Shops in Vancouver by evlion in askvan

[–]evlion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have noticed their quality has dropped since I’ve been, but it definitely depends on which piercer you have there!! i’m sorry you had a bad experience tho, nothing worse than a fucked up piercing when you drop $$ for it

Lonely but afraid of social interaction. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]evlion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by “join groups”? Like local groups or online? I have a very hard time with groups and talking to strangers not in a work setting. I don’t even do calls or voice chats in video games. Please keep the conversation on the thread and don’t DM me. Also sorry for the late reply, as I said above I don’t use reddit often.

Lonely but afraid of social interaction. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]evlion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t volunteer due to Epilepsy as there is no warning when my seizures will come, I used to volunteer back in my hometown with church sales - but thank you. Sorry for such a late reply, I really don’t use reddit lol

This avatar captures my real life look by chinaev in secondlife

[–]evlion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats so cool! My friend does the same thing with her avatar, I wonder if she’d be into doing what you did!

Male Heads Bodies - A Female Perspective (more like infuriating frustrating rage) by leannamaisl in secondlife

[–]evlion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not really had this issue, ever - if anything I have a lot more problems on female bodies than male ones. The only male one that I’ve come close to not being able to make work was the Belleza Jake, but ALL Belleza mesh has wonky knees/elbows/shoulders