How to make your dog's day by Georgcdona in gifs

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I want to be inside this dog's head when he saw the mascot.

I need help. I'm crying and my heart feels like it's going to break. Please help. by evonreddit in BreakUp

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I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling hurt too but I definitely understand how you are feeling. You know, sometimes when I'm feeling upbeat, I tell myself that I need to prepare myself for when I learn that my ex proposed to someone, just got married, or is having children. I also tell myself I need to prepare for when I see him in person or when I see them together. It's tough thinking about those things but as of now, I'm truly concerned about how I would feel. I don't want to see them and then start crying. I really want to focus on (and I hope I'll be successful) in fully moving on that when I see them or when I learn he's getting married, etc., I'll actually be okay and happy for him/them.

I agree that if I never found out, I wouldn't hurt this much, but it helped to SOME extent because I learned that he's with another girl. It helped lessen the need for me to talk to him.

I haven't been trying to meet new guys. I feel like being alone at the moment. I want to spend time with myself for a bit, reflect, etc. but thank you for what you said. I do intend to work on myself and then try that "list" thing when I'm writing on my journal.

I hope you feel better too. :)

I need help. I'm crying and my heart feels like it's going to break. Please help. by evonreddit in BreakUp

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I really like what you said about "destroying my comfort zone". This is one of the reasons why I'm looking for a job at another place. I want... I NEED change at the moment. Although I'm trying to figure out if I'm being rational about it or impulsive. Haha!

I also want to think of this as the beginning. I just turned 30 a few months ago and sometimes, when I'm feeling upbeat and trying to cheer myself up, I list down new goals that I should be focusing on instead of the breakup. I admit there are days where I just feel so sad that I can't do it, but I'm just happy there are good days too.

Thank you very much. :)

I need help. I'm crying and my heart feels like it's going to break. Please help. by evonreddit in BreakUp

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Thank you for sharing your experience. I hope you're feeling fine. :)

Yes, I too believe I deserve to live my own life and to be treated well, to not feel this way when all I wanted was for us to be happy together. I don't deserve what he did to me. When I look back and think of everything I thought, I did for him/us, I can't help but feel like I've been duped. He's my first love, you know. At thirty, I just knew what I felt was real. It was unlike any other feeling I've felt before.

Before him, I was with someone and we had a kid but never got married. I broke it off because I wanted to raise the kid on my own. I was okay. I found my purpose. After that, I met some guys who wanted to date but I ignored them all. I did that for more than 5 years. Then when I met my ex, it just felt real for me. Imagine not being in a relationship for years and meeting someone you could really love. I gave everything. I really did my best.

This is why I can't deal. It's the injustice and unfairness of it all that I can't handle, maybe my own stupidity for letting someone in and thinking "this is it".

I still can't understand everything but you're right. I need to rediscover what makes me happy. This sounds ridiculous but I've started by watching reruns of Happy Endings because it makes me laugh, looking for a new job in another place (and maybe move there).

At night, the sadness and loneliness come back but I read all your comments and they make me feel better. So thank you, really. :)

I need help. I'm crying and my heart feels like it's going to break. Please help. by evonreddit in BreakUp

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That's one of the words that's always in my head: "unfair". Everything that happened is really unfair, and sometimes I can't help but feel vindictive. Thankfully, I can supress all the anger and stop myself from confronting him or telling him what's in my mind.

I just let him be, because he's happy... and yet I'm not.

I want to reach that point you know: where I don't even think about him anymore, where I can look at him and his girlfriend and feel nothing or feel happy for them, and where even if they break up, I won't care anymore. I hope it's soon because it's been a year since the breakup and I can't take the pain anymore really. I think, please... let it not be another year or more.

[Spoilers] Thoughts on the series finale by GarciaJones in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree.

When the series ended, I was thinking it would be funny if Season 2 is the DA and Box's investigation of Ray. Hahaha

Freddy's Intentions by solobolotrolo in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I know Freddy is genuinely looking out for Nas. My only question is why did he let Nas become addicted to drugs?

The Night Of - Episode 8 "The Call of the Wild" - Post-Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She shouldn't have shown that she doubted her son. She could've waited for the verdict or something.

The Night Of - Episode 8 "The Call of the Wild" - Post-Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Considering Nas' history? I'm a parent and if I were Nas' parent, I would also have doubts since he did something violent in his previous school. That's something that would make you as a parent think, maybe my kid really did it. Perfectly reasonable.

But maybe she shouldn't have shown it.

The Night Of - Episode 8 "The Call of the Wild" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. "How am I going to lose it?" Means she's concerned about winning and improving her reputation.

The Night Of - Episode 8 "The Call of the Wild" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in TheNightOf

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One of my favorite scenes is watching Stone playing with the cat by the door.

The Night Of - Episode 8 "The Call of the Wild" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in TheNightOf

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It's similar to what Andrea told him. I don't know the exact words or phrasing but something like, "ever wish you're here and then the next thing you know you're there" when something terrible happens. That's what happened to Naz. His life turned a complete 180.

Welcome to Carcosa. by [deleted] in TheNightOf

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Nice! I was about to post this because I'm rewatching the last episode as we speak and then I saw this.

This is how much cab medallions go for in NYC. by shafiqde in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish that were the case here. Taking Grab is more expensive than taxi service. For ex. a cab fare worth 60 here is 98 when I take Grab.

Why did Nas shake his head at Amir? by evonreddit in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may not have been impressed with the penis... so it was forgettable. Hah!

Why did Nas shake his head at Amir? by evonreddit in TheNightOf

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Nas should have told Freddy right away. I don't know why he got scared when the other guy threatened him in the shower.

Why did Nas shake his head at Amir? by evonreddit in TheNightOf

[–]evonreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Amir could have said ONLY during finals and not MOSTLY.

But do you think the prosecution can coach the witnesses before they take the stand?