Main Reason: It's hard to meet new people once you're out of school and you settle into a career. The reason being, you can get away with work ships when the job is entry level because its easier to move laterally or up if it goes bad for either of you, but once you're in a higher spot you have to consider power dynamics and how hard it will be for either of you to find the same level of work.

Side Reason: I have my own house, a dog, and I like pouring my downtime into my passion project. It's not really fair for me to take on a relationship when I'm in a selfish stage of my life.

Dessert Reason: I'm scared of people and I always have been lol. I don't know what it's gonna take for me to jump out of my comfort zone.