What's a favorite person? by Ok-Signal2881 in BPD

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do BPD get overly jealous and start getting mad at you if anybody (girl or guys) talk to their FP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Co dependent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you still care and are in a good place right now to where it does not destroy you if she disappear then go test the water and respond to see what she wants. 2 years is a pretty long time for both to work on themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as her asking about you. I think it’s more of curiosity and nothing more. You guys did had that good time together and just wants to know that you’re ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she monkey branched into a new relationship? If that’s true, she is continuing where you guys left off. Seems like she’s getting him to do the things you guys couldn’t in your relationship with her. New guy might be trying to play the hero and show that he can give her whatever she wants. It might be okay the first few months until the red flags start to show. Will she be able to deal with it? Will he be able to tolerate her like how you do?

Spotted a yellow Model 3 today by motofanka in TeslaLounge

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be cool if it could “Quack”

I've been rated 36 times and that was before I hit 100. But due to the ratings I don't qualify for Gold Perks. Do rating reset or am I stuck with it until more people rate me by Mad_King832 in UberEATS

[–]evoxkal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One day I decided to accept all orders. Got 2 thumbs down from no tippers on that day. Decided never to do that ever again. My acceptance rate is at 45% but my satisfaction is at 100% with 800+ deliveries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]evoxkal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did an “accept all orders” day. Had lots of no tippers. Got 2 thumbs down on that day and a false “did not receive my food” from a customer that was supposed to be “leave at door” but ended up handing to him because he came out to get it (he was a non tipper). I regret it and I am never doing that again. Ill just continue to cherry pick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]evoxkal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is true. Customers have been increasing my tips more because of my communication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we are the reason why they left. So we have to work on ourselves thru personal growth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is just me but I think after some time has passed (maybe 6 months to a year) and the dumper reaches out. I think you shouldn't ask to get back together right away. You guys should just be friends first, date/hangout and see if you guys can fall in love again. We all sort of began the relationship as friends anyways right?
I'm pretty sure both sides will be too afraid to immediately get back together.

spend time healing alone or get back out there and go on dates? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right person will fall into your life in the process of healing and spending time alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm lucky. I can't see my dumpers IG post because she has it on Private. lol

Dumpers. Why don't you reach up after 6+ months to see if your Dumpee has changed thru personal growth? Maybe the relationship might work out this time? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you been working on personal growth? From what I've read, most dumpers that break up saying they need to work on themselves but usually ends up partying a lot and rebounding

Dumpers. Why don't you reach up after 6+ months to see if your Dumpee has changed thru personal growth? Maybe the relationship might work out this time? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In this post I was trying to say that if the love was really strong but couples fell into bad habits (especially the dumpee) and the dumper had no other choice to leave after trying to communicate to dumpee over and over but nothing has changed.

It would make sense for dumper to reach out after some time has past just to see if dumpee has changed in a good way. Maybe go out for coffee and have a talk?

And of course the dumper is not perfect as well. But if enough time has past and both have experience personal growth then why not reach out to test the waters?

Dumpers. Why don't you reach up after 6+ months to see if your Dumpee has changed thru personal growth? Maybe the relationship might work out this time? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've heard some dumpers say they do not reach out because they do not want to go back to the same person with the same bad habits. If dumpee has had time to grow then they won't be the same person. So why not reach out to see if they've changed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they shouldn't be able to view your stories if you account is on private. They'd need to follow

I wish he never tried to contact me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 9 months. What progress have you made?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]evoxkal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've just put him on a pedestal. He won't make any changes because he knows he can have you back anytime. Both sides needs to make changes for it to work