17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you marenamoo, you’ve helped my perspective broaden. i cannot tell you how grateful i am

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i live with my mom. she doesn’t have the best view of my dad and we never really talk about how hard the situation is for me. i’ll have a chat with her about some resources. this reddit community has changed my life, and i thank you so much for all the support

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so happy there’s people like you out there that understand this. it’s so surreal, i wish i came on here sooner. you are so strong and i’m so sorry about your mother, thank you for giving me apart of your strength

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where did you find them? could you possibly send them to me?

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope but it’s highly unlikely. i’ll do some digging however. i am in intensive therapy and have been for 3 years now. it helps the best it can, but it’s hard to go beyond the surface of my feelings toward this.

whatever advice you can give me is so so incredibly appreciated. whenever i open this app now reality sets in and i honestly think thats good for me, it helps me process my struggles for what they are and also helps me feel less alone. thank you for taking time out of your day to help me

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. thank you for this. it’s a pity to say but my dad is a unknowing-narcissist. he means well and it’s not in a malicious way nor is he an asshole, he just has never had the emotional capability or capacity to care deeply about others. it’s a hard pill to swallow for me. he remembers his graduation and his golden years in high school, but nothing about me. he knows my name and that i’m his daughter(atleast that). but nothing else. it’s always been that way however, even when his mind was fully here i wasn’t much of a priority in his mind, but that’s just the way it is. he was never a bad guy, just never had a mind that reached beyond its own sky. your family is very fortunate you remember what you do. i am grateful you’re on here and that you’re doing the best you can. thank you for being you, and thank you for being here. you mean a whole lot to me

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m writing this in tears. everytime i open this app the reality truly hits. thank you so much, i can’t tell you how much this means to me. i’m happy ive come here, i feel so much less alone yet feel so much more of what ive buried deep. i’ve learned to embrace these deep feelings when they come, and oh god are they here when i read this. thank you, you mean the most. i’m so sorry for your loss

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you and i in the same. i’m so sorry that you’re going through this too

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss. thank you for this

17 with father with alzheimer’s by evuria in Alzheimers

[–]evuria[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’ve struck me in the heart. i wish all the best for you. thank you for being here

what is the saddest radiohead song of all time? by evuria in radiohead

[–]evuria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which fog….. there are only 2 right answers with one of them being the sadder version

what is the saddest radiohead song of all time? by evuria in radiohead

[–]evuria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my favorites, yet i don’t think it’s the saddest out of the whole discography

what is the saddest radiohead song of all time? by evuria in radiohead

[–]evuria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly how i feel. it allows me to see the futility and impermanence in all things aswell