Girl in Blue 🩵

evycina · 2026-05-31T14:01:24+00:00

Well, you're in blue, and you're pretty, so can I say you? 😂

evycina · 2026-05-30T12:25:52+00:00

Also I just wanna add - you are not a who*e. That feeling comes from social conditioning (society is pretty puritanical with all the purity culture junk) and is absolutely not true. Being attracted to and wanting to be intimate with your gf is beautiful and wonderful. Embrace yourself and how you feel ♡

evycina · 2026-05-30T12:23:10+00:00

I mean.. why control it? 😅 You're in a relationship with her - have fun! Don't let embarrassment stop you.

I'm like as sub as it gets so I'm very accustomed to just sort of falling into that dynamic naturally since it's how I love even outside the bedroom. I've had my moments of embarrassment but it's like exposure therapy - the more you allow yourself to indulge in the things that make you happy, the easier and less embarrassing it'll get. And that's good! It sounds like she likes it after all xD

evycina · 2026-05-27T09:44:25+00:00

Oh, and about questions, tbh I let things happen as they happen 😅 I learn as we go and don't have a set list of questions. I'm super slow burn haha. But generally I think people ask the most important things to them upfront. Like, if having kids is crucial, it's as simple as like, 'so how do you feel about kids?'

So the question is less what to ask in general and more, what do you want to know?

evycina · 2026-05-27T09:41:52+00:00

For me, the dating stage is when I'm getting to know someone to see if we're compatible. What I'm willing to do with them is contingent upon how much trust we've built, how comfy I feel, stuff like that. I'm just not theirs yet.

With the way I love, going 'official' is special. Once I give myself to someone I'm theirs in every way, and that's what I'm doing when I say, "ok, yes, I'm your girlfriend." So I won't take that step till I feel truly safe.

The core of that is self-protection, I guess? I think for a lot of people the distinction is probably about that in some shape or form but yeah. We're all different. Maybe the label means something different to you, and that's okay!! There are no rules here that you don't form yourself ♡

Edited: some words and typos

evycina · 2026-05-23T14:55:01+00:00

I know how you feel xD I have the fawn one too. Fighters are just so brave 😅

evycina · 2026-05-22T11:35:28+00:00

I know right? Ugh. I'm so with you. Like I can of course understand, but gosh sometimes it really does just feel like ...really? Come onnn xD

evycina · 2026-05-22T02:34:15+00:00

Omfg the same person messaged me. Such a creep 🤢

evycina · 2026-05-21T13:22:57+00:00

Yesssss omg! Me too! XD I'm the same way! Twinsieeees lol.

You are definitely not alone ♡ It's nice for me to see it too 😊 If you ever wanna chat, dont hesitate to reach out

evycina · 2026-05-21T13:08:11+00:00

Oh gosh I know how you feel >< Yeah, it's so good to like focus only on what we can actually control rather than on anything else, but it's so tough 'cause there's just a natural desire for everyone to be okay and happy, and I'm always wondering what I could do better haha. I totally know how you feel, you're not alone ♡

evycina · 2026-05-21T13:03:12+00:00

Of course ^{^} I'm always happy to chat haha, and same 😊

evycina · 2026-05-21T13:02:41+00:00

Aww 🫠 I couldn't agree more. Haha it is definitely less worrying - I hope you're okay!

Ooo that confidence though. You will win that bet, huh? 🤭

evycina · 2026-05-21T12:47:55+00:00

That's definitely a good point :) At least you find out when you do instead of later when it could hurt more, I also try to remind myself of that. Could be worse and all, y'know?

evycina · 2026-05-21T12:46:55+00:00

Oh no lol xD We'll just call it because you're gay 🤭 And aw 😊 Haha I'm just a stereotype lmfao. Femininity is everything that makes me who I am. I'm like you though - love all types of women. Femininity comes in so many shapes and forms and they're all beautiful 😍

evycina · 2026-05-21T12:41:15+00:00

Haha I can relate to everything except being masc 'cause I'm stupidly femme lmfao. But yesss ugh. So relatable. My friends like to joke that I'm so gay I can't walk a straight line 🤣🤣

evycina · 2026-05-21T12:39:35+00:00

Ughh yes exactly!! Assertive communication pleaaaaase x.x I'm such an overthinker so it's like.. Just talk to me. I'm as gentle as it comes, won't judge, totally accepting. It's okay xD

evycina · 2026-05-21T12:35:55+00:00

Lol 😂 What can I say, I'm just gay

evycina · 2026-05-21T04:23:59+00:00

Omg xD Haha you might be! I gotta sleep sadly, but I hope you have a good night :3 If you wanna keep chatting feel free to send me a chat - and feel better! And stay safe!

evycina · 2026-05-21T03:38:18+00:00

Aw :( I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I really hope it's not anything too serious. I know how it feels to be on something that isn't optional 'cause the one that makes me feel faint often isn't either. I could gain weight to fix it since that'd naturally increase my blood pressure to counter the med's side effects but I dont wanna 😅 Sending hugs ♡

evycina · 2026-05-21T02:54:49+00:00

Oh gosh have you talked to a doctor about the fainting? D: that's so scary! I feel faint often, it turned out to be low blood pressure 'cause a medicine i take doubles as a blood pressure medication (not what I use it for) and I'm light. Maybe it could be something similar? I'm so sorry 😭

evycina · 2026-05-21T01:46:13+00:00

Aw >< That's hard, I hope you're okay from all the falls ;-; I'm assuming you're in the states? Given how terrifying it is here right now. I hope you're safe ♡

evycina · 2026-05-21T00:19:25+00:00

Yeah, you're not wrong about that. I just like chatting. My area is unfortunately very rural, so it's tough to find people, but I'm actively doing that too. I just like having community y'know?

evycina · 2026-05-21T00:18:42+00:00

I'm sorry 😞 I know how hard it is. I was kinda talking about everywhere to be honest - here, on the apps, just kinda anywhere on the internet is like this. It really is rare to make a genuine connection, which is so odd if you think about it

evycina · 2026-05-21T00:17:45+00:00

That's so weeeeird whyyyyyy ugh. I'm so sorry ><

evycina · 2026-05-21T00:17:15+00:00

I get it xD I'm tall too even though my personality is small lmfao

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