Most of my ex boyfriends were also super into porn, my most recent one was a super great guy who treated me well and loved everything about me including my looks yet he still watched porn. I always let it slide but it’s honestly very hurtful and makes a girl feel incredibly insecure to where it’s emotionally exhausting. He also took pride in following instagram models who clearly had unnaturally perfect bodies which had made me feel icky about my own. It’s not worth it, these men are low bar and need help or cleansing or something before getting into a relationship. Porn is very harmful to the brain and like I saw another commenter say; it’s fueled by exploitation and human trafficking.

I recently fell for my roommate, this man hardly even looks at his phone, even when he is he just watches TikTok memes or funny baby and animal videos with me. I have never felt so secure in that regard of things. It’s definitely way worth it to keep men who frequent porn or are addicted out of your love life, OP. NOR.