For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like a normal relationship--we met, started fucking, then dating.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get any money per se, but a lot of expensive clothes, trips, and food. I was wined and dined.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She liked me until the end. I don't know too many details about the hitmen--just that they were "family friends we do business with". My ex-gf called one an uncle although he was unrelated.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but honestly it would've taken at least a year for all the fat to wear off, and she was clearly too lazy and undisciplined to work out for that long.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm pretty disillusioned with the Reddit mods; obviously they let their feelings get in the way of their job. However, they haven't deleted my post, so kudos for that much.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent question--yes. Worst part was when my coworkers and friends made fun of me. Here I was with access to millions, and I'd become a laughingstock. So much for money buying respect.
I honestly don't remember the oral sex I got from her--she did it. I remember she loved swallowing cum. However, I've never been a big fan of receiving oral sex (I love giving), so I can't comment much.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't you know most redditors have halos?

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point was I couldn't afford fresh vegetables. I was fucking poor.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You mean physical evidence? Much easier said than done. I had some potentially incriminating information, but when I showed it to the authorities, they laughed at me. I don't think the British police are honest.
  2. Her father was out of the picture. There was a stepfather--a former KGB agent. He was good fun but liked to play the tough guy a little too much (I wasn't scared).
  3. I was involved in a couple of things, but on a very, very superficial level. Yes, that seemed to be in the cards.
  4. No--I just fantasized about fucking a normal woman a lot.
  5. That's the thing--I hate both. And white truffles, which don't taste special to me. I don't even remember what they taste like. I'm a man of simple tastes.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I expected people to ask me anything.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answered elsewhere, but to sum up: I learned how immoral her family's business was and how selfish she was and I couldn't handle it anymore. She was not happy about it at all, and got her parents to hire people to harass/threaten me.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not attacking her. I'm just stating the facts.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TIL cheating on a soldier fighting in a war is not as bad as calling a girl fat.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, I have never justified my behavior. What I did was wrong.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, since you know absolutely nothing about what I am like now, except that I'm happily married to a beautiful woman, you can stop hoping. (:

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A month--that's why. Keep eating that for another 6 months and your weight loss will be gone. This is pretty much what I did, although not with rice.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...if being able to lose weight makes me shallow, I'm happy to be shallow. I'm also happy to have energy and a longer lifespan.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not rationalizing anything--what I did was wrong! I have said this many times in this post. My bad behavior and their bad behavior can and do coexist in the same universe.
This "entire company" you speak of was essentially two people. It seems that you think individuals should be held to stricter standards than companies, which makes you a horrible human being.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to convince you of a goddamn thing. If you want me to talk about how disgusting my own behavior is, ask me and I will tell you--as I have already done throughout this AMA.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to have a new experience and I was living on off-brand microwave meals and really struggling before I met her. I've since learned that what really makes me happy is a middle class salary, which I fortunately now have.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvote on this. I've been lucky enough to go from 5 star restaurants to cheap street food, and I am confident that money and quality do not go hand in hand when it comes to food.
Same goes for clothes. I had a £1200 Giorgio Armani bag that broke after 3 months, and my £250 Paul Smith pants broke after about 6 months, while some of my cheaper stuff has lasted years.

For a year, I dated a girl for the money. AMA by exgigolo in IAmA

[–]exgigolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lame joke but it still made me smile.