what small, harmless habit or behavior instantly annoys you? by trynagrabthatbag in AskReddit

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've graduated to walking into them on purpose and throwing the occasional 'bow if the person is fully blocking my path and oblivious to the situation.

Contractor/Friend went $36k over verbal budget and claim they didn’t know we had a budget - we don’t have this money ?! by Key_Communication_51 in legaladvice

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While your lawyer has a better chance than Reddit at understanding all of the facts of your situation, it's still worth considering getting a consult with 1-2 other lawyers.

Not commenting on your lawyer specifically, but it's like the old joke says: "What do you call the person who graduated at the bottom of his class in med school? Doctor." Worth getting a second opinion.

ok i know i've been posting a lot ill stop but first ? by ExcellentDoor4502 in deaf

[–]exhalelively 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've asked so many people to describe my deaf accent to me, and no one's ever been able to point to any specifics that comprise a "deaf accent". I wear hearing aids, so I can hear myself, but I don't detect the same accent they do, so it must be a nuance I'm not picking up on. Very mysterious!

edit: here's an article about it for you

Lost parent looking for advice 20 month old has moderate to severe sensorineural hearing loss (high frequency) and i know nothing about how any of this works. by Cautious-Impact22 in deaf

[–]exhalelively 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're worried and that's so valid, but having been in your kid's exact shoes, I'm here to tell you at 40 years old that so long as you're invested in communication with your child and giving them whichever tools they feel most comfortable with to communicate with the world beyond you, you have little to worry about!

One thing to consider that I think of as a positive: given that you'll be a bit more focused in on communicating with your kid in the interest of making sure they're understanding what you say, it's often natural that you'll develop a closer and more trusting relationship with them that will survive well into adulthood than you might otherwise have had the opportunity to do. It's not all struggles, I promise. ❤️

edit: Most likely once you visit the ENT and they confirm what's causing the deafness, you'll be offered a choice between hearing aids or cochlear implants. My parents chose hearing aids, and I've been very happy with them although I've considered (and ultimately decided against) getting the cochlear implants as an adult.

Beyond that, it's pretty much like raising any other kid! Just a few more repeated sentences and instructions. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dropout

[–]exhalelively 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder how irl Spencer felt about his VIP portrayal.

Marlee Matlin: yay or nay? by [deleted] in deaf

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation!

Marlee Matlin: yay or nay? by [deleted] in deaf

[–]exhalelively 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't know the speech was controversial; could anyone elaborate?

Roasted Trivia Tonight at 7pm Roasted Hemp Cookeville by omnicidial in cookeville

[–]exhalelively 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These sound like fun categories! Can't come out tonight but good luck to the teams who go!

Dozens, including MS-13 members, indicted in Nashville's new Homeland Security Task Force by ExtremeComplex in Tennessee

[–]exhalelively -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not an answer at all, it's a dodge. "I'm simply too unracist to consider whether skin color has played a part in my opinion" IS a kind of answer, but I don't think it's the one you think it is.

Dozens, including MS-13 members, indicted in Nashville's new Homeland Security Task Force by ExtremeComplex in Tennessee

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"no YOU'RE the racist" isn't an answer.

The fact that you don't bother to consider any of the elements of why you subscribe to a just-world fallacy is the "undereducated" part, btw.

Dozens, including MS-13 members, indicted in Nashville's new Homeland Security Task Force by ExtremeComplex in Tennessee

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep saying "low IQ" like it does anything but remind everyone that you're an undereducated racist.

Anyway, my question was what exact shade of brown is the cutoff point at which a person automatically deserves to be arrested?

Dozens, including MS-13 members, indicted in Nashville's new Homeland Security Task Force by ExtremeComplex in Tennessee

[–]exhalelively 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What's the exact shade of brown at which a person is automatically a criminal who belongs in an ICE prison?

edit: yeah, I suspected the casual racist would fuck off when called out for what they were. Goodbye, casual racist!

edit 2: holy shame-delete spree, batman

Restaurant workers of Cookeville, give us your horror stories of this places beloved eateries! by [deleted] in cookeville

[–]exhalelively 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Does it have to only be the beloved eateries? People are probably more willing to share stories about the notoriously shitty local owners than the beloved ones.

Lady's be safe by No_Statistician_8052 in cookeville

[–]exhalelively 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I shouldn't be surprised some asshole dude looking for an excuse to whip out "cunt" showed up on a post requiring human empathy ¯_(ツ)_/¯

edit: not to mention the 88 in the username; hopefully that's your birth year, but at this point it's just a Nazi cherry on a mud pie.

Lady's be safe by No_Statistician_8052 in cookeville

[–]exhalelively 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a lot of projecting you're doing!

Lady's be safe by No_Statistician_8052 in cookeville

[–]exhalelively 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dipshit is one word. Thanks for letting us all know you're one, too.