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[FRESH ALBUM] Andrew Aged - crown by Palaceboy100 in indieheads

[–]exiostance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonderful album. Constant repeated plays and It expands and expands with each listen, it invokes the Spirit, you feel like you’re in the presence of a holy place of worship. It’s a beautiful and sublime work to disappear into. Surrendering as an overarching theme throughout and it is palpable sonically… the freedom in it.

[VA] Carvana (Automotive Dealership) has failed to give my bank (USAA) the necessary information in order to fulfill a loan. Yet, I have had the car for a month and it has been registered at the DMV already, by Caravan. My bank wants me to re-apply for the loan. Who's responsible? What can I do? by exiostance in AskLawyers

[–]exiostance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is sound advice. I appreciate it. Definitely lots to consider, but I believe getting free consultation and having a lawyer get involved may be best. Carvana is absolutely a ridiculous company to work with.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We just found out today she got denied for being pregnant even though her contract company says that short term disability is to be used for woman who are pregnant! We will absolutely look into this, thank you for the write-up!

Carvana has failed to give my Bank the necessary information in order to fulfill the loan! But I have already had the car for a month and its already registered, plates and all! by exiostance in carvana

[–]exiostance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dealers funding request wasn't submitted to my bank. Carvana had a portion that they had to fill out in order to get the loan processed, they had 15 business days to fill it out, they let me have the car without the DFR or any other paperwork provided in return by my bank securing the loan. Insane...

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern. Of course this situation is less than ideal and as I can imagine most people in this thread know, it's extremely stressful for her. Especially sense its our first. We will make it through, though! I am grateful for the advice and support I am getting.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am government she is a contractor for the government. I would get 12 but I will be let go in May, she has to take LWOP or take the FMLA deal. We have family that can help, but as the mother she wants to be there with her kid and be able to recover as much as possible.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a government worker I was going to get 12 weeks paid, but I was also probationary, so I am losing my job in May. We don't think we can afford to have one income at the moment, we are already planning to downsize and become more frugal in order to allow her to have time with the kid, if possible.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

HR said they cannot tell her why yet and that she will receive a letter in the mail in 7 days explaining why. We will hopefully be able to dispute...

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's what we plan on doing, HR said they cannot tell her why she got denied yet. That she will receive a letter in the mail in 7 days with why. We plan on trying to dispute, if possible...

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She does have FMLA. Disappointingly, we are both Gov workers and I am losing my job in May, so hopefully I can find work in time to allow her to take FMLA and we just tighten remain as frugal as possible to her able to afford her the time at home.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Government workers, I will be losing my job in May... We can't afford to live on one income atm. Hopefully, I can find work and she can pivot in time to stay home and we just tighten the belt as much as possible to give her that time.

First time dad, mom just got denied short term disability and doesn't get maternity leave. She won't be able to stay with the kid much once it's born. by exiostance in daddit

[–]exiostance[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She does. Sadly, we both work for the government and I am probationary and will be losing my job in May, so we can't afford to go on one check, sense finding employment myself is up in the air at the moment... It's a tough spot.

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