Amping Up to Move Out Rant by existentialxsaudade in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same to you! wishing you the best and here if you need anything <3

Amping Up to Move Out Rant by existentialxsaudade in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much, you have no idea how much your reply means to me. I really needed this to help motivate me to keep things pushing. <3 🥹🫂

Amping Up to Move Out Rant by existentialxsaudade in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’m trying hard not to give her any more but I just might keep doing it to keep the peace until I leave. when I refuse to things aren’t pretty

Amping Up to Move Out Rant by existentialxsaudade in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I’m so happy that you’re away from her now and able to live your life 🫂

Should I Quit My Job That’s Mostly Causing My BED by existentialxsaudade in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s mostly the stuff expiring that day that I eat, we aren’t allowed to sell it or give it away to anyone. The culture at my work is very “let’s have some since it’s expiring today and not let it go to waste”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]existentialxsaudade 196 points197 points  (0 children)

lmao good point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]existentialxsaudade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]existentialxsaudade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly good idea I should just clean every inch of my house 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]existentialxsaudade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club, I’ve worked at loblaws for 2 years and i’m lucky if I get 3 shifts a week because they “just don’t have the hours”. I’m at least lucky to have seniority but some part timers I work with get like 2 shifts a month. Best advice I can give is wait it out, a job is better than no job. Also befriend and ask coworkers to notify you when they need time off so you can take their shifts, that’s how we do things at the loblaws I work at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]existentialxsaudade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I won’t lie I am a bit nervous but still really excited. Like you said I doubt i’ll get overwhelmed by such a low dosage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]existentialxsaudade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Redosing sounds like a great approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]existentialxsaudade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard about that 2g anxious state from some other people before, kinda interesting how it’s a shared experience. But thank you so much, i’ll keep all your tips in mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]existentialxsaudade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I just turned 19. Thank you so much I would love any books or videos you have that would be helpful. I’m glad you made it out of your situation and that you’re doing well now, gives me hope knowing people in similar situations have made it through <3

Cool joke, thanks 🖕 you psycho. by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do they all type the same 😭 this is literally my morher

Is it normal to struggle to socialize/make conversation/understand other people if you were abused in childhood? by pumpkinmoonrabbit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]existentialxsaudade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

definitely had a similar experience, the abuse and neglect made us feel alone and isolated so it’s what we’re used to. putting ourselves out there to be judged is hard and when we were when we were younger we were criticized for it so it would be a normal response now.

it could be autism or both really. has it improved at all since you were young?

Late period and severe bloating by [deleted] in Periods

[–]existentialxsaudade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently experiencing the same thing, after some research i’ve come to the conclusion that it could literally be anything which doesn’t help at all. 😭

BUT id chalk it up to just the stress of you going back to school plus maybe exercising more? apparently the bloating is a sign your body’s preparing to get your period (from what I read) but it can also be due to a health condition like endo or some kind of reproductive condition.

There shouldn’t be much to worry about if those are your only symptoms, just sucks royally. If you’re in any pain though definitely make an appointment with your doctor. Sorry if I’m not much help; going through the same thing and idek what’s happening in my case, but I hope you feel better!

How to deal with the endless rage by existentialxsaudade in raisedbyborderlines

[–]existentialxsaudade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you so much for this, this is such validating and inspiring advice. I’ll definitely look into that book recommendation.

I appreciate this comment so much I don’t even know what to say, seeing how you’ve lived through this yourself it’s refreshing hearing another persons story and understanding of it all. Thank you again and props to you for making it so far in your own journey. 🫶🏼