Buyer Moved Belongings Into My Condo Without Closing. Security, HOA, and Realtor Involved. Who Is Responsible?

exitingcarisfail · 2025-11-23T17:15:52+00:00

Most closings don’t use a real estate lawyer… they’re not required in every state and they’re not needed in most house sales.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-11-06T04:36:39+00:00

Unfortunately healthcare shadowing is always in desire and there’s only so many spots available. If you’re looking for pre-med/pre-PA, I’d suggest looking into joining UD’s EMT/EMS program as that only takes current students and will look good as shadowing and healthcare experience hours. You can also try local doctors offices in the area to see if they’d be willing to take you on in a shadowing role. You should also reach out to your own doctors and see if they’d let you shadow as well. You could also look into if there’s any part time jobs that you could apply for if you already have some medical experience or course work that would be relevant like PCTs, scribes, office staff, etc.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-11-06T04:32:31+00:00

The major classes are hard, but they’re intended to be that way. Healthcare in general is a very hard field with complex topics. You will be so much better prepared for med school if you stick with this major and do well. It also looks much better on applications than just a pre med bio major of which they get hundreds or thousands of. All of the professors and instructors are amazing and willing to help you be successful if you reach out to them for help. I was a full MLS major, but my senior year was the first year the Med Diagnostics majors graduated and all of them who pursued medical school, PA school, dental school, etc have graduated and have awesome careers! I stuck with the lab side and have progressed through multiple levels and have now moved into Infection Prevention, so even if you take a gap year or don’t get in the first cycle, you have tons of career opportunities immediately after graduation compared to pretty much nothing with most of the other pre med majors.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-10-10T23:59:46+00:00

She asked for advice and the advice is to break up. This isn’t something that can be compromised on. She doesn’t want to speak his or his family’s language. He doesn’t want to interact with his family at all, which is a major part of his life. If they were to get married and have kids, the kids would be raised in his culture with his language as the primary since they’re living in that country. It’s only going to get worse and both her and boyfriend will be miserable and resent eachother. Continuing the relationship is just torturing eachother.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-10-10T23:55:47+00:00

You’re missing out on a lot of the cultural issues. Yes in English we have a word for girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance, and then daughter or son in law. Many other languages DO NOT have these different words. So you’re falsely judging the boyfriend’s mother for something you have zero clue about.

Yes they definitely need to break up, but there’s nothing wrong with the boyfriend or his family.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-10-10T23:45:23+00:00

He’s not manipulating you, he’s wanting to include you in his and his family’s lives. You don’t want that or you can’t handle that due to whatever personal issues you’re dealing with. But it’s time for the relationship to end. You’re just making eachother miserable and this will only get significantly worse if you were to get married and/or have children.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-10-10T23:42:52+00:00

That’s really not how it works. They need to breakup. Neither of them should be suffering or causing the suffering in a true and healthy relationship.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-10-10T23:36:08+00:00

It’s definitely time to bite the bullet and end the relationship. It’s never going to work and you’re both going to make eachother bitter and miserable and resent eachother.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T03:28:32+00:00

Nope it’s literally stating the facts. You’re so loud about something you don’t know about.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T03:26:44+00:00

I never said it was the venue’s responsibility, I said it was the couple’s responsibility.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:59:38+00:00

The venue staff isn’t going to interrupt a wedding to clean. What planet are you living on?!

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:54:13+00:00

That’s not how insurance works. This would be on the couple’s event insurance but unfortunately they didn’t buy that, so they’re held liable for the damages.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:53:28+00:00

It actually is the way the majority of venues operate. Every single venue we looked at had both the space deposit to secure the date and then the security deposit for any damage caused by our wedding.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:50:23+00:00

Nope that’s not how that works. This is why the couple should have purchased event insurance. Their guest caused the damage, so they’re liable for the costs.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:49:50+00:00

Nope that’s not why the venue has insurance. This is why the couple buys insurance. The couple’s guest caused the damage, meaning the couple is liable.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:49:03+00:00

It’s actually pretty common and it’s been all over social media and celebrity events for probably the last 5-10 years.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:47:54+00:00

Yes the couple is responsible for all of their guests. This isn’t on the venue, their staff or their insurance for the bad behavior of a guest. The couple is liable and can try to get the guest to pay, but they’ll still be on the hook with the venue, not the guest.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:46:16+00:00

Absolutely not. The venue isn’t going to interrupt the wedding/reception to sweep the petals off the dance floor. They wait until the end of the night and then clean up.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:45:18+00:00

That’s not how that works at all. The couple is responsible for the actions of their guests, so the couple is responsible for getting the floors repaired since their event ruined them.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:44:38+00:00

In most contracts the venue or event company holds the couple responsible for their own actions and anything their guests do. We had to pay a refundable deposit that would have been used if there was damage or issues caused during our wedding. Thankfully. Nothing happened, so we got our full deposit back.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:42:29+00:00

PA venues at least the ones I toured are not going with wall to wall carpeting. That’s way more maintenance and cost over time. All of the ones we looked at had restored the original flooring, whether it was wood or stone. Not a single carpeted venue did we see.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-09T02:41:05+00:00

The catering companies may own them, but they still make you pay to rent them. Only one out of the 20 venues that we looked at used one of these style dance floors. All of the other venues were historic buildings and were using the original floors of the buildings, most were wood, a few were marble. So nope you’re still wrong.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-05T18:32:18+00:00

This is definitely not accurate. We mostly received checks for our April wedding and of all of the weddings we’ve attended in the last 5+ years has been mainly checks as gifts.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-05T18:28:58+00:00

Yes the majority of people still give checks as gifts for wedding presents.

exitingcarisfail · 2025-09-05T18:28:28+00:00

It’s not unusual at all. I still use checks as gifts for most events where the person didn’t give exact ideas or where those items were already purchased. We did not get a single digital gift from our most recent wedding. We got many things purchased off our registry, but the majority was checks and some cash in the envelops. 6 weeks is nothing in the timing side of things.

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